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My mom went into depression a few years ago and she is still on medications. She is fine now...but sometimes she behaves strangely like...she dances, screams, cries and all. Especially near days of amavasya and pournami...she starts screaming like..I don't what happening to me...she cries ..screams..and everytime she asks for food..ie..curd rice...she asks for more and more more and more...she eats so much and then she goes to sleep..during that time..
She says i feel like dying..I will die... doctor please let me know if anyone could help me in this matter..I can't withstand this sight from me...I love her so much. Some people say ...it's something spiritual or demonical... What I have to do... please let me know... please help me
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I can feel the depth of your love, pain, and helplessness in every word—and it’s clear how much you care for your mother. What she’s going through is distressing to witness, especially when it’s unpredictable and tied to emotional outbursts, crying, or extreme behaviors like overeating and talking about death. You’re doing your best to protect her, but this situation is emotionally overwhelming, especially when cultural or spiritual explanations are offered and you’re left confused between medical and non-medical interpretations. You’re not alone in this.
The truth is, these symptoms—emotional dysregulation, crying spells, disorganized behavior, and even intense eating—can be part of a deeper mood or psychotic disorder, even if she’s “fine” most days. The worsening near amavasya and pournami might reflect a biological cycle or circadian vulnerability, and not necessarily anything demonic. However, since she’s already under psychiatric care, it’s important that you share these exact symptoms and patterns with her psychiatrist—especially the suicidal thoughts and behavioral shifts. There might be a need to adjust her medication or review her diagnosis, possibly for bipolar disorder or a schizoaffective condition.
You are not doing anything wrong. And no, she is not possessed. She is unwell, and she needs compassionate medical care and family support—which you’re already giving her. Stay with her, listen gently, and document her episodes so her doctor gets a full picture. And you, too, deserve support during this—please consider therapy for yourself as well, because caregiving in such cases takes a toll on your own heart.
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First, I want to acknowledge your deep love for your mother. Itâs very natural to feel scared and helpless when we see our loved ones suffering. You are already doing a brave and responsible thing by seeking help. Please know that you are not alone in this, and what you are describing sounds more medical and emotional rather than anything demonic or spiritual.
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Medical Re-evaluation: It is important to take your mother for a psychiatric review soon. Sometimes, after long-term depression, mood disorders like bipolar disorder or psychosis can appear or become more visible â especially when there are patterns of high emotional energy (dancing, screaming, overeating, feeling like dying) around specific times. ⨠Observe and Note: Start keeping a small diary to track: When these episodes happen (dates, timings) What happens exactly (behavior, eating, emotional statements) How long it lasts This information will help the doctor understand better and adjust medicines if needed.
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Stay Calm and Safe: When she becomes very emotional, do not argue or try to stop her aggressively. Instead, stay close, listen calmly, and ensure she does not hurt herself. Gently offer water or sit beside her quietly. Nutrition and Rest: Since she craves curd rice, it is okay to offer food during such times, but gently guide portion size once she is calmer. Also ensure she gets enough hydration and sleep to help her body recover. Avoid Superstitions: While cultural beliefs are important, it is better to focus on scientific treatment first. Mental health issues can look strange but are very much medical and treatable with the right support. Take Care of Yourself Too: Watching a parent suffer is emotionally heavy. You also need emotional support to stay strong. Please do not carry this burden alone. Soul Savera Recommendation: At Soul Savera, we work with families dealing with emotional, psychiatric, and behavioral struggles with compassion and clarity. You can reach out to us for family counseling or caregiver support, so you can understand her condition better and feel more equipped to support her.
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It's understandable that you're concerned and overwhelmed by your mother's behavior. Her symptoms, particularly the increased food cravings, erratic emotional outbursts, and statements about wanting to die, especially around specific lunar cycles, warrant professional medical attention. While spiritual or demonic explanations might seem plausible, they are not helpful in a practical sense. It's crucial to rule out any worsening of her depression or possible side effects of her medication.
The increased food cravings could be related to her depression, medication interactions, or a physical health issue. The intense emotional distress and suicidal ideation are extremely serious and should not be dismissed.
Please encourage your mother to see psychiatrist *immediately*. Explain your concerns about the worsening of her depression or medication side effects, the unusual emotional outbursts, and the increased food cravings. A medical evaluation is crucial to rule out any underlying medical conditions or if adjustments to her medication regimen are necessary.
If her mental health professional suggests it, explore therapies like counseling or support groups that could help her manage these episodes. It's vital to have a plan in place for these situations, including strategies to ensure her safety and yours, and to support her through these emotional peaks. You are not alone; seek support for yourself from family, friends, or support groups for caregivers of people with mental illness. Your love and concern are essential, but professional help is paramount.
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Psychiatrist consultation will help you or consult homeopathic doctor to help you in this
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Hi, Consult a psychiatrist
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It seems to be depressive psychosis. It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively but you need an expert.
It needs to be treated in a holistic approach for complete recovery.
You need an expert Psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
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I have been working as a Homeopathic Psychiatrist and Counseling psychologist for the last 17 years. You can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance
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I understand how distressing it must be for you to witness your mother’s suffering. While some behaviours may appear unusual or may be interpreted spiritually by others, it’s important to approach this compassionately through a clinical mental-health lens first.
Since your mother has a past history of depression and is still on medication, these episodes — especially during specific times (like amavasya and pournami) — could be related to underlying psychiatric or neuropsychiatric conditions. It’s essential not to ignore these signs and avoid attributing them solely to supernatural causes without a proper clinical assessment.
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Schedule a follow-up appointment with her psychiatrist or consult a clinical psychologist at a reputed mental health centre in Bangalore (such as NIMHANS).
Keep a simple record of when these episodes occur, what she says, her mood, food cravings, sleep, and other behaviours.
Inform the mental health professional about the timings, food cravings, and her statements about dying. This will help in ruling out mood-spectrum disorders or other psychiatric conditions that may have a biological rhythm link.
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Stay calm during her episodes — sit with her, hold her hand, and gently reassure her that she is safe.
Avoid arguments or confronting her distressing statements.
Offer curd rice if she asks, in moderate amounts, and ensure she’s hydrated.
Maintain a supportive, quiet, and familiar environment during those times.
Avoid listening to unverified spiritual explanations unless suggested by a qualified mental health expert after evaluation.
NOTE: You are doing the right thing by seeking help. It’s difficult to watch a loved one struggle, but with proper medical guidance, emotional support, and consistent care, things can improve. Please don’t hesitate to reach out to a mental health professional soon.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Would suggest you to consult a psychological Counselor for your Mom..
If needed for any further tests or medications the psychologists generally suggest so for her..
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Dr. Rupali Mohbe (PhD)
Psychologist
26 yrs exp
Ahmedabad
Hi, I appreciate that you reached out with your concern.
As per the symptoms you have describe you should definitely consult psychologist and psychiatrist immediately. Tailored strategies to your specific needs with professional psychologist will help you.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi.... Please consult a Psychiatrist immediately, it appears to be a psychotic episode. There is no clear explanation of such things anywhere. But in Psychology and Psychiatry, it is defined under psychotic disorders. The treatment is also effective. The condition becomes manageable post treatment and recovery also occurs in most cases. It is called manageable because the recovery is not 100% is some cases. But most people recover to an extent where they are able to lead a family life and pursue a profession. Please do not get distracted by various opinions around you and seek medical diagnosis and treatment. I know some good Psychiatrists in Bangalore and I can share contact.
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Consult a Psychiatrist first.
Medical Diagnosis and Medications are required to bring down the symptoms.
Consult a Psychologist later when her condition become stable to an extent where psychotherapy can be conducted.
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Ms. Smriti
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18 yrs exp
Bangalore
You need to connect with a psychiatrist.
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