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I have wierd sexual fantasies like threesomes foursomes with my wife. Is it normal? I have fantasy about my wife giving handjob to me and other guy. I also have other fantasies involving couples sometimes. I don't want to do anything to hurt her. But I want to try with her. What to do?
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You both need an expert sexual or relationship psychologist asap.
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Ms. Neha Sachdev
Psychologist
11 yrs exp
Delhi
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It is very normal to have fantasies. It is always exciting to have fantasies. The only condition is that ur wife agrees to ur fantasies. Have an open discussion with her in a non-pressure able atmosphere. It is also very important that u respect her boundaries too. This has to be done in a consensual way. She too may be having fantasies and u too agree and respect the same way as u want her to respect yours.
Also one important factor that needs to be considered here is that during ur intimacy with multiple partners, u use protective measures, and are healthy.
Am sure you wouldn’t want to end up having STDs.
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Ms. Pooja Gupta
Psychologist
9 yrs exp
Delhi
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Having sexual fantasies, including threesomes or involving others, is quite common and normal in many relationships. The key is to communicate openly and honestly with your wife about your fantasies. Share your thoughts in a non-pressuring way, emphasizing that you respect her feelings and boundaries. It's essential to create a safe space for her to express her own thoughts and fantasies as well. If she's open to discussing it, you can explore the idea together, establishing clear boundaries and ensuring mutual consent is a priority. If either of you feels uncomfortable, itâs important to respect that. Ultimately, maintaining trust and open dialogue will strengthen your relationship, regardless of whether you act on these fantasies.
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Ms. Amita Chaudhary
Clinical Psychologist
3 yrs exp
Gurgaon
It reflects suppressed desires, thoughts and emotions. It will require psychotherapy to understand these processes. Also guidance in relationship as well.
Consult a clinical Psychologist for therapy.
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Dr. Amita Puri (PhD)
Clinical Psychologist
32 yrs exp
Gurgaon
No, it is not normal.
You need to meet a clinical psychologist.
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