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I think I am a addict of online sex chats/calls. I am in a relationship of nearly 5yrs and it was going good with usual stuff however i was also indulging in sexting on online app..I used to do it while I was single but with this relation ongoing for 5 yrs I still didn't stop .though it was not frequent bt it continued..its not like that I dnt care for my gf ..we were abt to get married NXT year, our parents met as well.. I was lukng forward to my life with her.. .recently she caught me of this habit by chkng my cc statements.. she used to trust me alot..not only her bt her fmly even peopl in my fmly trusted me alot.i was a good guy for them..bt now due to this she lost trust and got hurt..she deciding to call off the marriage.. I can't make her or anyone believe me again even if I say I won't do it again.. I hv done this in past n hv been doing this all the while..I dony know I hv some problem or this urge.. I need to consult with someone to get myself out of this adctn
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1. Delete the dating and messaging apps on your phone.
2. Sort out your contact list and delete you’re sexting partners
3. Keep your phone away from your bedroom when you’re about to sleep
4. To avoid sexting out of boredom, engage in physical activities like sports, exercise, or outdoor activities
5. Find a wholesome pleasurable activity that you enjoy like watching your favorite TV program, eating out with friends, starting a new hobby, etc.
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Counselling is effective in dealing with it. You can book a session with me. Directly contact me - double eight zero two two nine seven nine four three.
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Right, it's sad for you and tough for her to accept the situation. Try to talk to her peacefully she is upset,the image you have set for yourself has disturbed let her take time to rebuilt the trust again just request her to not involve families for some time. First rule out is it addiction or you do it just out of boredom.
Work on your self image and self esteem generally people who get indulge in random chatting and sexting with strangers are found low in these areas.consult a psychologist who has previously dealt with such case.
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Hi, You can get over this problem with professional help.
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Consult
Health Tips
Regular exercise
positive distractions
Mindfulness meditation
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... It is neither an addiction, nor an illness. It more a habit that you have developed over a period of time and now it has become a part of your life.
People often start involving in such activities when they feel lonely. This method of online sexting makes it easy for them to satisfy their need to fulfill their loneliness and sexual desires. An online partner does not demands much and is easy to maintain. It is also very easy to access anytime, anywhere, and even more easy to break up. All these things make online relationships a preferable choice.
The problem came when your partner found out about this habit of yours and considered it amounting to adultery. I don't think everything was going fine between you both and this particular thing suddenly went out to blow up your marriage. I believe there were already issues going on between you both and this particular incident worked as a catalyst to spoil your relationship and marriage.
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Consult a Psychologist.
Interpersonal Relationship Counselling or Pre-Marital Counselling is required.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Senior Psychologist
Cell: nine six seven one three zero three one three four
Website: https://gunjanmaithil.wixsite.com/therapy
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Ms. Smriti
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi you need to connect with psychologist to resolve inner conflicts.
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counseling
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