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I had childhood trauma. My parents were toxic and abusive. I never had any good memories with them. I remember every thing they told me to abuse me and punish me. They tortured me mentally since my childhood. I'm 28 now still i can't come out of it. Whenever I anything bad happens to me I'll blame them in my mind and will get worried and stressed myself. I am staying separately now and not in contact with them for over an year. But every day I think about how they behaved to me and get sad. I can't come out of it. It affects my health. And sometimes I feel like my arms are paining. Sometimes I feel like I'll get panic attack. Sudden pain will pass through my limbs whenever I feel sad. I'm afraid if something will happen to me at this age due to thinking about my past.
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It seems to be PTSD. It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively.
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The most effective solution for dealing with anxiety for me personally was waking up early. Iam not a morning person but once i tried this, i was surprised how good this made me feel. It helped me find peace and calm myself down. Having so much time in my hand I could do small things that made me happy and I felt a sense of accomplishment just by waking up early. I feel the most anxious during the night- so sleeping early really helped me tackle it to a great extent. Meditation was another thing I tried when my anxiety was at its peak. Trust me- for someone who thinks a lot, it is no joke to shut your mind down and focus on your breathing. I could concentrate for very few minutes in the beginning but my thoughts kept spiraling back. So listening to some meditation music while i meditate helped me increase concentration. It helped me analyse my recurring thoughts and gave me more clarity about them. Mostly during such times I don’t feel like interacting with anyone- thinking that nobody will really understand how i feel. It’s great if you can talk it out and rant everything going on in your mind to someone who cares to listen. Taking it all out really helps. If you’re someone who is not comfortable with addressing this with anyone, then you can try writing down all that is going on in your mind. Once you take it all out in any manner, you will feel relieved. If you feel like you are stuck between your thoughts and feel very helpless, just do SOMETHING. Take a walk, call up your friends and talk about something random, play with your pet - just do something to break that cycle that is going on in your head. Do anything that will distract you even for sometime. Take action without overthinking anything. Just go for it. Being positive and thinking right is almost impossible during such times. One of the main reasons i avoid talking to people during this time is because they may feel bad/ give some positive shit which is not what I want. You know yourself the best- try starting small and appreciating small wins. Having a motivational self-talk session/ looking in the mirror and giving yourself some positivity might help. Appreciate yourself for how far you have come and remind yourself about your strengths. Try to get a balance of the basic things that need to be right- Sleep, food, health and water level. Once you get these things in check it will show better results over time. Having any kind of physical activity or a workout routine will help you fight anxiety. Doing this releases endorphins which trigger a positive feeling in the body. It will also help you reduce stress, improve sleep and help in fighting with anxiety and depression. If all the above things do not help and you are still stuck with being anxious, then there is just one way out. Confrontation. Ask yourself what is troubling you and analyse your thoughts. Address it and not run away from it. You have to feel the anxiety, be curious about it and seek answers and find out what is really going on. There will always be an underlying message or something you’re trying to run away from and are too weak to confront that. No matter how much you run away from it, sooner or later you will have to face it. This is a long process and you need to be strong and have patience to tackle it. Lastly, know that YOU ARE NOT ALONE. This feeling is just temporary. Think of it as your body’s way to communicate something with you. We feel this only when we have lost perspective and when we are lacking inspiration. We have to just find ways to get out of the drama going on in our heads and gain perspective. Anxiety is something most of us go through at different levels. We are just too weak to talk about it. It is a part of being human- you are not alone.
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Do Yoga and meditation, Go for counselling session
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Hi, Connect with a Psychologist, it will help Introspecting resolving by gaining more knowledge of oneself through therapy . By being aware of triggers, and establishing a sense of security , it will make it possible for you to heal , manage , overcome , to learn ways to navigate life .
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You can practice slow breathing, listen to calming music , repeat positive assertions .
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Child hood trauma  leaves scars and further complications. Connect with psychologist to resolve inner conflicts
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Hi, Childhood trauma can leave deep wounds in the human mind.It can cause depression, anxiety, phobia etc .You can get professional help to overcome these troubles.
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Toxic parenting or any other style of trauma can leave life long scars This should be addressed since it can affect the quality of life for you and those around you Chances are also that you pass this on to your coming generation in modified fashion Journaling that is therapy based and family constellation practices will help
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Hi... I suppose you are partially aware of the root of your concerns, as an adult. Toxic parenting and trauma at an early age may impact human mind in multiple ways and the whole perception of self and the world around may get negatively impacted. But keep blaming the past for anything that is happening now is also not wise. "We are not what happen to us. We are what we choose to become". It is our responsibility to make our present better than our past in order to have a better future. Also, I believe there are triggers in your present environment (professional/personal) that are triggering these old repressed issues. You need to first address these triggers in the present environment to ensure that you are in a better place mentally and than gradually work upon your core repressed issues that have been haunting you for such a long time.
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Consult a Psychologist. CBT along with Lifestyle Changes and Interpersonal Guidance and Counselling is required.
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