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Hey doctor. So, I have a man in my life. I love him a lot. I recently shifted to Delhi for work and he's there in my home town miles away. We're still in touch but things are not the same. For example, I text him about something and he replies to me hours later and some or the other excuse is ready. He calls oftenly and he barely shares anything going on in his life. I keep asking him but he shares nothing. I literally then cannot concentrate on my work at all and I keep stalking him on other sites to check whether he is online there or not and I do find him online, liking pictures, etc. This thing has created a lot of anxiety in me and I stay restless all day. What should I do?
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Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. Anything related to Relationships issues create the most of emotional stress in mind and affects your day-to-day functioning. So it's important to pay attention and address it on priority. Be aware that sometimes career get priorities to certain people's life and he may be focusing on this now. Don't be decisive of life with such suitations or incident. Talk to him openly and express your expectation and feelings. An open communication is the best solution to solve such problems than you holding it within you. Feel free to reach me for further counselling guidance and assistance to overcome such emotional disturbance. Be positive. You will be alright soon.
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Hi . There can be a couple of reasons 1. he may be involved with his work and as and when he sees your message he is replying.. liking pictures doesn't mean that he is ignoring your message ....to like a post is easier and quicker then to write down a message ... 2. Secondly was he different in his behaviour towards you while you were  together ?...... most important to know is ..not whether he has changed his behaviour towards you but   how you react to  this ...keeping a watch on his online post or to see whether he is online or not...  stalking him etc  is going to do bad for your mental health... so stop doing that... if he is still cares   and loves you  he will make efforts for it......if he has stopped sharing his life details with u (if he was doing that earlier )then either he is going thru certain things in his life which he is trying to handle his own way or probably he has changed is approach towards you.... Whatever the case may be you will have to wait and see.... give him a space to behave the way he wants before you jump into any conclusions
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