Unable to control my anger. Am in anger.

Hello... You can try these things to get rid from anger..... Dealing with anger "Everyone has a physical reaction to anger. Be aware of what your body is telling you, and take steps to calm yourself down," says Isabel. Recognise your anger signs Your heart beats faster and you breathe more quickly, preparing you for action. You might also notice other signs, such as tension in your shoulders or clenching your fists. "If you notice these signs, get out of the situation if you’ve got a history of losing control," says Isabel. Count to 10 Counting to 10 gives you time to cool down, so you can think more clearly and overcome the impulse to lash out. Breathe slowly Breathe out for longer than you breathe in, and relax as you breathe out. "You automatically breathe in more than out when you’re feeling angry, and the trick is to breathe out more than in," says Isabel. "This will calm you down effectively and help you think more clearly." Managing anger in the long term Once you can recognise that you’re getting angry, and can calm yourself down, you can start looking at ways to control your anger more generally.  Exercise can help with anger Bring down your general stress levels with exercise and relaxation. Running, walking, swimming, yoga and meditation are just a few activities that can reduce stress. "Exercise as part of your daily life is a good way to get rid of irritation and anger," says Isabel. Looking after yourself may keep you calm Make time to relax regularly, and ensure that you get enough sleep. Drugs and alcohol can make anger problems worse. "They lower inhibitions and, actually, we need inhibitions to stop us acting unacceptably when we’re angry," says Isabel. Get creative Writing, making music, dancing or painting can release tension and reduce feelings of anger. Talk about how you feel Discussing your feelings with a friend can be useful and can help you get a different perspective on the situation. Let go of angry thoughts "Try to let go of any unhelpful ways of thinking," says Isabel. "Thoughts such as 'It’s not fair,' or 'People like that shouldn’t be on the roads,' can make anger worse." Thinking like this will keep you focused on whatever it is that’s making you angry. Let these thoughts go and it will be easier to calm down. Try to avoid using phrases that include: always (for example, "You always do that.")never ("You never listen to me.")should or shouldn't ("You should do what I want," or "Youshouldn't be on the roads.")must or mustn't ("I must be on time," or "I mustn't be late.")ought or oughtn't ("People ought to get out of my way.")not fair Anxiety, fear and anger Sometimes when people talk about "anger" what they actually mean is aggression, says Dr James Woollard, a consultant child and adolescent psychiatrist. "Often when people experience or appear to show anger, it’s because they are also feeling fear or perceive a threat, and they are responding with a 'fight' response to this." "Asking yourself, 'What might I be scared of?' can give you a different set of choices about how to respond," says Dr Woollard. "You might be angry that something has not gone your way. But you may also be scared that you might be blamed or hurt as result. Recognising this might allow you to think and act differently."

Dear patient. Anger outbursts or a feeling of irritability is merely a symptom. For eg a patient will have fever as part of malaria or a person with diabetes will have deranged blood sugar.  So the persistent anger indicates an underlying mental health problem. For this you must consult a qualified mental health professional for a detailed evaluation of your condition. Hope this helps. Get well soon