Suggest me if i need a doctor or not.

Hi. It's good that you pour out your problems to seek help. Dont stop yourself to choose a proper psychologist for you. It's time that you should empty your emotional garbage lying in you. After venting those feelings and emotions , we can help you gain positive feelings and positives emotions. This will greatly relax you from harming yourself or your suicidal tendencies. I am taking best efforts to help and counsel people providing therapy and care.

you can get personal or online or telephone counselling from me.

Self harm might be very harmful & painful. Definitely u need to take steps to treat ur condition. Both medication and therapy can help u. Exploring ur pains, worries, thoughts, beliefs will help u to heal urself even better. Consult online for therapy.

Take help from a Psychiatrist straight away. He will prescribe you medicine for immediate intervention For therapy Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling online All the best

Life is very beautiful and everyone goes through various things in life which they may not like. The fact that you have written such a message and reached out to us shows that you must have a lot of positives and strengths. We can help cultivate those strengths and remove the toxicity. It is important that you speak with a psychologist immediately. Please take an appointment with me if you would like to.

I understand your predicament. I want you to take a good look at what is calling for your attention and needs to be addressed. Here are a few suggestions that could help you in this process : The nature of the Mind, which in simple terms we experience as thoughts, is such that, it will keep shifting its focus from one object/topic/event to another. Today the mind might be fixated on something. Tomorrow it could be another topic/event/person. Another important characteristic of the Mind is this - You may either have thoughts about the past or the future. Try thinking about the present moment - you will see that you cannot have thoughts about the present moment. The Mind has 3 states in general. Sometimes, you may find yourself having very positive, inspiring thoughts. During other times, you may find yourself very emotional, or all charged for action. Whereas during other times, you may feel very lethargic, dull or lazy. These states may keep alternating. Having understood the nature of the mind, the first step towards mental health is to become aware of your thoughts. Learning to be an observer of your thoughts, learning to observe them from a distance like clouds passing in the sky. Just like how the clothes you are wearing right now are yours, but not you, thoughts that you experience from time to time are yours, but not you. The next step is knowing that you have the power to choose which thought you wish to focus on and act on and exercising that power. With practice, you will have better mastery over this process. When you repeatedly focus on a thought ( that springs from a belief that you have and which is threatening or disturbing by nature ) and identify with it, believing it to be true, the corresponding emotion rises in your brain. It overpowers your capability to think rationally. The cycle repeats and hence you feel imprisoned by your own thoughts and emotions. As mentioned above, with practice, you will learn to focus and entertain only those thoughts are healthy enough to be acted upon. When we experience disturbing thoughts, we instinctively try to fight, resist or control them. Again, fighting a thought is like fighting a shadow. You can see it, but it's not real. Fighting a thought or emotion only gives it more power. Say, for instance, when someone asks you not to think of a pink elephant, the first thought that invariably comes to you is that of a pink elephant. Instead, what we can do is, learning to be a distant observer of thoughts ( that are only based on past experiences and hence are no longer true or relevant today or do not serve your highest good ) and not act on them. Whenever you feel overwhelmed by thoughts, try bringing your focus back to your breath. Here is a breathing exercise that could help you : You may do this in the night too once you have finished with your tasks for the day : Inhale slowly to a count of four - hold your breath to a count of four - exhale slowly to a count of eight. Repeat this ten times. You may do this also in the morning before you begin your daily routine. Gently massage the back of your neck and the base of the skull when you lie down to rest. Whatever you feed your mind through your sense organs will be replayed to you as thoughts. Be conscious of this. Take care of the content you feed your mind - the kind of books you read, the websites you visit, the kind of music you listen to, the kind of food you eat, the kind of company you keep ( "You are an average of five people you spend most of your time with" ) Our attitude towards life in general and things in particular is based on our Beliefs - what we believe to be true about ourselves and the world. What are your core beliefs about yourself and the world? Is my situation truly hopeless? What are the beliefs on the basis of which I judge myself to be a misfit? Have there been experiences that have proven otherwise? Are there people in my life who love, respect and support me unconditionally? Try writing them down and examine the validity of these beliefs. Some of them may be limiting and negative in nature because of the kind of feedback you received while growing up - at home, in school, from your classmates, friends, relatives, etc. But once you are aware of them, you shed light on them,examine their truth, they can no longer manipulate your behavior or actions. As your beliefs change, your attitude changes, and words, actions and behavior follow. One of the definitions of stress is the thought(s) or the belief that you don't have the capability and the resources to address, to deal with, to successfully overcome the challenge(s) that is right in front of you now. Consider the components of this equation - On one end you have the object that induces this belief in you ( it might be a person/event/situation ). Reflect on the possible sources of stress for you. Is there anything you can do to change this side of the equation? On the other end, you have your resources to tackle it - reflect on whether you have done all you can to prepare for it/address it/ do justice to it. The state of our mind has a bearing on our physical health too. So, addressing the root cause will help you overcome any physical challenges you might be experiencing too. Please set aside time for exercise daily and make sure you eat healthy every time. Our challenges that seem to threaten our very existence are the ones that serve as fuel for our evolution. 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When you are in stress and not having self understanding, then this kind of thoughts will come. You are absolutely good, just little training to your heart and mind can help you to remove all the destructive thoughts in you. You definitely need someone who can help you to take away all the unnecessary thoughts Good luck... you are a nice human being

Train your mind and heart to witness more happiness and more contented life in every second of your life.

At this moment do more Physical exercise and listen to music. Then find the right method to heal your mind and heart.