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Hi, I have a elder sister and I am the last one. She looks like my dad and speaks like my dad . I look like my mom and speak like my mom. She looks better than me and speaks bold and fast than me and I look less compared to her. People support only her what ever effort I put it is going on waste. End of the day she gets all credits. This is really concerning me. I am not against her but people ignoring me is hurting me a lot they are treating both equal . How to address this pls help . My mom is no more and I have no support for me
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Hi. Do some social work. Behave sometimes to please others. Do innovative work. Help others.
Do sacrifice, accept before others that she is better than you. Appreciate her. People may start to find as a different person. Accept what is true and real. Lots of Love...
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You need to stop comparing and start working on your inner strength.
Let your performance speak.
I'm sure you have that in you.
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You feel you don’t have much support and your elder sister gets all the credit. I understand it can be tough to lose a parent. You feel upset when your sister gets all the credit and you feel all your efforts are not recognised. You also compare yourself with your sister. It is important to know that every individual is unique and it will be good if you can be happy with yourself. A psychologist will guide you on how you can be happy with yourself.
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Feel free to contact me for counseling session. You can book an audio session with me.
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Dr. Charanya
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Coimbatore
Wellness Greetings to you
I could see that the only issue , you have is nothing do with the society or the the sibling .The only issue is about you ,not being able to accept yourself for who you are. I know this may not sound easy, but if you can sit and see that you haven't accepted yourself completely ,not for one time . You have always been striving to be someone or like some other people , that you admired. Don't you think, Deep inside part of You is very much tired of this .I would highly recommend you to take a professional help and seek guidance for practicing self- acceptance.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
You maybe thinking this, because of the many incidents which has happened all through your life..
I really appreciate you for seeking a professional support at least now..
Consult a psychological Counselor to overcome this issue..
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Ms. Swapnil Srivastava
Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Delhi
Hello.. I understand what you are going through but don't compare yourself with anyone . Every individual is unique and special and so the same applies to you. One more thing we can't control perception of others but we can control and modify our perception, so see the positive side of yours and accept the negative side also. For more help and better guidance consult a psychologist. You will get help.
Stay happy and healthy.
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