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Hi. I am loving one girl from past 1 year. I saw her in my 1st class of 1puc and I text her and we got close. I already know that she has boyfriend so I didn't propose her. One day she talk to me in call for all night 11pm to 5am in that time she said propose me so I propose her she accepted. After someday she started kiss me and tell I love you to me so I was happy. Whenever she talk to me late night 11pm to 5am we used to talk sex talk. She only come to my class and talk to me in every Lunch hour and morning. She was telling me i want to see you. I can't stay without seeing pr talking to you it was going very good. But 2 week before her boyfriend told her not to talk to me she argued with him and she was talking to me although her boyfriend warned her she didn't leave me her boyfriend told her to block my id and number but she didn't block me. After this she told me that we stay like just frnd don't hold my hands. Don't kiss me and hug also. I Said ok just to stay in her life. advice
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Hi, Consult a psychologist
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Aapko seedhi baat samajhni hogi—ye situation healthy nahi hai, aur aap hurt hone wale ho agar isi tarah chalta raha.
Jo ladki hai:
Uska already boyfriend hai
Usne aapse closeness, late night calls, “I love you”, kiss—all kiya
Phir achanak boundaries set kar di: “sirf friend raho”
Iska matlab clear hai:
wo confused hai ya dono sides maintain kar rahi thi, lekin ab usne apni priority choose kar li hai (apna boyfriend).
Apni self-respect rakho Aap “backup option” ya “timepass emotional support” nahi ho.
Jo ladki clear nahi hai, usme invest karna aapko hi hurt karega.
Distance lena better hoga Daily baat, late night talks—ye sab aapki feelings ko aur strong karega.
Thoda space lena zaroori hai.
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Aap usse politely distance le lo, focus apni studies aur life pe karo.
Aapko aisi girl milni chahiye jo clear ho, loyal ho, aur sirf aapko choose kare—na ki confuse kare
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Hi,
Itâs important to respect her situation and boundaries, especially since sheâs in a relationship. Focus on giving her space and prioritize honesty and respect. Be prepared for the possibility that things may change, and take care of your own well-being.
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You’re attached to her, but the situation is not clean. She already has a boyfriend, got close to you, and now is pulling back. That shows confusion, not commitment.
If you stay as “just a friend” while having feelings, you will end up hurting yourself more. You’ll keep hoping and she’ll keep you as an option. Ask yourself honestly if you can truly be just a friend without expectations. If not, create distance.
Someone who really chooses you won’t keep you in between like this. Protect your self respect and shift your focus back to your own life and studies.
Take therapy. You can connect with me on nine two six six seven two six zero six five.
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Hello,
I understand this situation is emotionally confusing for you. From what you’ve described, the girl is already in another relationship and is now setting boundaries with you by asking to stay “just friends.” This creates a mixed and emotionally draining dynamic, where your feelings are stronger than what she is able or willing to offer.
It’s important to understand that staying in such a situation can hurt you more in the long run, especially when your expectations and her actions don’t match. Respecting her boundary is important, but at the same time, you also need to protect your own emotional well-being.
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It would be helpful to create some distance, focus on yourself, and avoid staying in a situation where your feelings are not equally reciprocated. If you’re finding it difficult to move on or feeling emotionally stuck, you can reach out for a session. I can help you process this and build healthier emotional boundaries.
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Ms. Pooja Bhargava
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10 yrs exp
Delhi
You deserve to be with someone who fully chooses you and staying in a ‘just friends’ situation when you want more will likely keep you hurting
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Moving on begins by accepting that you cannot change her choices or her current relationship even if it hurts to let go. Focus your energy on your own life and people who value you
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