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I like a girl and we were in a sort of on and off relationship. During lockdown we were in other cities and talked sometimes. When we met we felt connected then later again it went off. Gradually I thought of ending it as I felt that it could not be continued for a longer duration. I was talking to another girl who is actually the previous person's best friend. I have developed a bit of attraction for her. Now everytime when I open up with someone where the person also opens up with me, I tend to fall for them. Not everytime, as I have friends with whom I do share but don't have anything like that. But is this behaviour normal? And if I have developed feelings for that person then is it right to tell her considering she is the best friend of the girl with whom I earlier was. Also, is it normal to start to fall for someone with whom we become a bit vulnerable and open about everything and spend a bit of time together or just talking on phone? difference b/w luv & infatuation?
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You need to improve your perception and decision making skills.
It can be well corrected with counseling sessions effectively.
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Trust and commitment
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
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13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... Being attracted to people we share our lives with is absolutely normal.
There is nothing wrong in getting attracted to anyone and it is also ok to share it with that person. What matters is, who you form a relationship with and how committed you are in that relationship.
Such a commitment cannot come by force. It must come from within you naturally. Unless you have this clear sense of commitment towards anyone, you should avoid putting a label to your feelings and relationships.
You do need to work upon your self esteem and build your emotional self more stronger.
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Consult a Psychologist.
CBT along with Interpersonal Relationship Counselling required.
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