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Parents forcing me for marriage
This is my life story i love a girl since 12 years we are Madly in love she many times rejected government job boy for marriage for me she sacrifices everything,now i am a good settle man but my parents are forcing me not to marry her as they have already finals my marriage with someone else i can't forget her i have two choices either with her or to die I have chosen to die as I don't want to hurt my parents neither my love i don't have the guts to show my feelings for her to my parents so finally decided to end my life
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Hi, Do you think killing yourself is a solution.Here you are just thinking about yourself and thinking that running away from the solution by killing yourself.You have accepted the fact that you don't have the guts to reveal your feelings.There are solutions for all problems.You have to find a solution other than killing yourself.You can go for family therapy sessions.
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You are in love with a girl for twelve years and you want to marry her. Your parents are not agreeing to you marrying her and they are forcing you to marry another girl. You are not able to convince your parents about the girl who you have been in love with for twelve years. The girl you love has feelings for you and she has rejected offers just to be with you. It is necessary to know what is the opinion of her parents which is the parents of the girl who you love for twelve years. It is necessary to know if they are okay with the marriage.
Consult a psychologist and explain about the relationship you have with the girl who you want to marry. It is necessary to know how often you communicate with the girl you love. Is she supporting you and is she confident about you and her being together and settling down.
Talking to a psychologist will help you feel better. Don’t feel upset. Every situation can be handled.
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Consult a psychologist
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Contact me for counselling session. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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Plz connect for session to resolve inner conflicts
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counseling
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Ms. Sharmila
Counselling Psychologist
1 yrs exp
Chennai
Hai, I understand what you have been through is something difficult. But trust me we will face this together. I understand how hard it is to un love a person once you loved more. Kindly reach out - nine three four four six eight eight four two one.
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Ms. Dipti Tomar
Counselling Psychologist
12 yrs exp
Greater Noida
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I read your problem I identify the problem you can’t forget your love and do convenience the parents don’t thik like end of life. Life is very important .you need a psychologist who will help you . Contact me
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Mr. Sandeep Kumar
Psychologist
15 yrs exp
Chandigarh
Hi, this is the first step you have already taken to explore a solution in your life, now just move ahead and consult with our mental health care professional to share all your concerns in detail.
I am assuring you, you won't feel regret in your life, our experts will help you to heal and integrate your life.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... You are facing a typical approach-avoidance conflict and this thought of killing yourself as a solution is more a reflection of something very deep inside you. You need to figure it out and need to work upon it, because it will keep coming back in crisis every time in your life. About this relationship you had with this girl, you will be doing a favour to this girl by letting her know that you are unable to fight for keeping this relationship in your life and thinking to rather end your life. This world is full dualities and various forms of decisive choices. You will not be able to keep everyone happy. Sooner or later you will have to choose who is more precious to you. Your Parents, this Girl, or your own happiness. The sooner you make a clear choice, easier it will be for everyone. I suggest you very clearly, make a choice that you can defend for a longer period of time. No-one knows what happens after death. Is it the end or a restart button.
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Consult a Psychologist.
Interpersonal Relationship Counselling is required.
Consult a Psychiatrist if the frequency and intensity of your suicidal ideations are severe, as medication will be needed to prevent an unfortunate incident.
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