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I liked a girl and we both were in an on and off relationship for quite a while. Due to so much of complications and that we were in different cities since lockdown my feelings for her gradually decreased. Also I developed feelings for another girl who is the best friend of the girl I liked earlier. She was also talking to me a lot obviously as a friend. I don't think she had anything on her mind. It was just me. I was not planning on telling her now. We were sharing and talking a lot spending time and suddenly she started ghosting me in a difference of just one day where I do not remember saying anything creepy. Not calling me or replying back. This has happened before too where people spoke to me a lot and then suddenly stopped(in a difference of a day).Not returning texts. I did speak about this to them but they gave the reason saying they can do whatever they want to. I want to understand if this behaviour is right on their side ? If I am feeling bad for this then am i wrong?
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Looks like there are entangled feelings and thoughts ,thus your understanding the situation is going sideways . Seek help to get clarity.
Relationship and personal counselling is required. This will help you understand your own feelings and the other person's too.
Relationship works two ways , cannot force anyone .
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Hi.
Patience .
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relationship therapy
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"The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn’t being said.”
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Seek counseling sessions to correct your perception and decision making skills.
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Ms. Kanika Girdhar
Psychologist
3 yrs exp
Gurgaon
Hi,
What appears from your text is that the girl you were dating on and off has stopped talking to you suddenly. This phenomenon is known as ghosting and has become quite common - people disappear without a reason or explanation. In such cases you are left wondering , what have you done wrong.
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Do seek therapy to work out whatever this person's ghosting is making you feel and move forward in life.
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Chasing the other person may not help. Instead you can focus on your own self.
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