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Husband talking more with sister in law
My husband talks less with me and talks more with my sister in law when all of us are in the drawing room. If i ask him the reason or tell him to give some attention to me,he is putting back the blame on me saying im the one who is not talking with anyone and im the one showing less interest with what he talks and she shows more interest. He also tells that i cant tell him not to talk with family members. What to do
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We all need a family that is connected with our loved ones, like ur husband has also that family that includes you + your sister in law
. We all have strengthens +weakness... Accept both and improve ur weakness..
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consult psychologist
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1.Dont think nagative
2.no one is perfect, we all have mistakes try to solve the errors..
3. Don't be judgemental...
4.listen to ur husband thoughts , accept them...
5? Don't hurt yourself by thinking too much...
(All our problems will b solved if we listen each other's conversation,)
we are here to help u...
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You feel your husband is talking to your sister in law more than you and it is making you feel hurt and left out. You also feel upset when your husband mentions that your sister in law shows more interest in what he is saying than you. You want to talk to someone who can understand what you are going through. To feel better you can consult a psychologist. Counseling is a safe space to talk about anything that is bothering you. You can also opt for couple counseling.
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You can book an appointment with me for counseling session.
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consult any relationship counsellor for the same
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You both need couple counseling sessions.
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you can contact me through online appointment for further assistance
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Ms. Komal Singh Parihar
Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
Hello dear
I can understand how you might be feeling. It might be hard for you and you might be feeling out of place and lonely. There might be some communication problem from both the sides.
Don't worry. Both of you should opt for marriage counselling from a good therapist or a psychologist as soon as possible.
Both of you can also contact me. Let's discuss your issues in detail so that both of you could reach towards a possible solution in your relationship.
Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!!
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
It looks like that uou both do not have much understanding between each other..
Also in a joint family setup, you need little more effort to along with all those people and get the attention of Husband too.
If possible, both of you can consult a Marriage Counselor to understand each other better..
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Ms. Muthulakshmi
Psychologist
4 yrs exp
Chennai
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It's better both need to consult with a Psychologist. Seems like there maybe lack of healthy communication is the problem in your relationship. Couples therapy can help to address the problems and find a mutual soultion. Don't worry.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi...
1. Do you feel left out when you three are sitting together and talking?
2. Or you feel your husband should give more attention to you than his sister?
If case 1 applies, please speak to both of them and make them understand that you are new in this setting (family/marriage) and when they get occupied too much with each other, you start feeling left out.
If case 2 applies, please you yourself consult a Psychologist because you need to understand what marriage is all about and how a couple needs to balance their time and attention to each other as well as other family members to keep a family together.
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Consult a Psychologist.
Marital Counselling and Guidance is required.
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