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I need to make a decision. I’m in love with a guy but my family has already found a guy for me and everybody knows about it. The guy I’m in love with is from a decent family but he’s a year younger to me. And we are both still studying in college. The guy my family found is rich has a nice family but had lied about his qualifications. I don’t know

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Speak with your parents openly about it. As you are in college and studying, take some time to make this decision. Reflect about your goals in life, and what do you expect in a partner and whether you ...  Read More

I'm not at all happy with my current life... Wanna run away somewhere but not able to, so many expectations from me by everyone attached to me.. got recently married, didn't wanted to but due to family pressure I had to.. in -laws family too much orthodox.. tried for a year but realised I'm not their cup of tea. I can't try anymore.. my whole life

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Hello there....., Take steps to control stress, to increase your resilience and boost your self-esteem. Reach out to family and friends, especially in times of crisis, to help you weather rough spells ...  Read More

Hi , I am a divorcee.I am currently living in abroad doing masters degree. I made a decision to select my future life partner by myself this time.At the same time I found a person with good compatibility. I wish to marry him in future .But i want to work in abroad which was my dream but since my partner is currently working as an employee managing

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Hello there Thanks for writing in your query. You have married a person and then divorced. So you know how it works, right? The question is what do you want, your priority. If it is to settle abroad t ...  Read More

Hello, sometime I feel confused or find it difficult to take some decisions like goal of life, professional goals, future planning. Etc May be due to nervousness or low self confidence . altogether I am fine and healthy. Should I meet psychologist of psychiatrist for some counselling or CBT?

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If it hampering your day to day life take some help soon If you can handle things or learning the same then there is no need ...  Read More

I have i problem of decision making and too much think about all things, sometimes i depressed, please suggest what i should be do...

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Hello, I understand how you feel when situation like these appear. Do not worry about this and there is no point in getting depressed on this because OneNote the other everyone will face this stage o ...  Read More

I also cannot be stable in any decision. It's changing with a period of time.

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decision making is always a problem in every individual,especially in your age confusion,instability is very much common for which you would need guidance from elders or friends. ...  Read More

I can not able to take a decision for marriage and career, I lost many things.i want to take right decision, I get many worst experience, so Nextdoor is not able to identify and resolve.

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until and unless a decision is put into action, one cannot say if it is right or wrong. at this pint of time what you need is to do a reality check. that will give you a correct perspective and realis ...  Read More

I am scared of every situation. Couldn't able to take proper decision. Very emotional. Always confused

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Confusion is where you have many thoughts mixed up. And that's why you are not able to make the decision. For this you need to be confident. Surely being a child, you have been living a life of fea ...  Read More

I feel very difficult in taking any decisions because of what people will think if my decision will be wrong. If he say me mad if I say something or take any decision .This is affecting my life and I am easily cheated by people .because of this notion please help me .How to get rid of this .thank you.

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You need to enhance your confidence and decision making skills. Do search Google for techniques in these two areas. You can also seek the help of a life skills coach or a counsellor. ...  Read More

I had been facing decision making problem from quite a lot time. i get very confused most of the times. then i overthink about it and get upset.

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You need to develop your decision making skills. Search online for tips or new a counsellor or life skills coach. ...  Read More

I had a cyst on my penis. In my foreskin i pop it,. Then I don't had any morning erretion 50 days. Penis slightly curve left side. Penis harf when flaccid. Disconnected feel when flaccid. In sex my penis can erret.and orsgasm also good. But my penis shape and something is demotivate me. I attached some photos plz save my life. I also hav irritate f

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Connect please ...  Read More

So,my relationship started on March, 2023, after around September October,my desire for being intimate with her started,at the same time our relationship became long distance,problem arises here,she used to say I am comfortable in that but I don't want our sex to be pre planned,now my logic was that we have to plan even to meet,then must plan to h

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You can’t move on because emotional bonds, even in toxic relationships, leave deep imprints. Your mind craves the attachment and familiar cycle (fight-breakup-patchup), not necessarily the perso ...  Read More

Sir in year 2017 my father got NSTEMI then doctor perform angiography on my father her reports are he have diffuse triple vessel coronary artery disease with 99% blockage in all three arteries of heart then docter test my father echo but the report of echo is normal with lvef 60 and docter check other test which shows my father was diabetic and hyp

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There is no definite answer for your question. But if proper follow up and proper medications with lifestyle changes will have excellent results ...  Read More

Sir my father underwent a bypass surgery 8 years later when he was at the age of 48 he has mini heart attack at that time when he was completely diagnosed he have diabetes, hypertension,hba1c-10 at that time,he was diagnosed with triple vessel disease of heart with diffuse coronory artery with 99% blockage in heart he was manage with beating heart

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Google is not doctor Everything u search there will lead you to cancer and death If patient has no symptoms don’t worry Control DM Good diet / exercise / lifestyle changes / medicines Can do CT c ...  Read More

Sir I am heart patient male of age 58 I underwent a offcabg×4 bypass with svg and one lima . Sir meri surgery age 48 ma hui thi aur mere ko taab heart attack aaya tha toh angiography ma 99% diffuse coronory artery disease nikla tha aur mujha 10 year sa hypertension tha jiski ma koi dawa bypass hona sa pehla nhi leta tha aur mujha diabetes bhi

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No definite answer for your question. I think if you are disciplined with your diet, life style and diabetes control, it should last long. Instances are there that person may lead a normal life withou ...  Read More

Hi, I donno to explain but i feel life is boring. Juz going forward for my daughter. But bayama iruku how I'm gonna grow her. All around me not ter for me. My husband don't talk much or share. So I feel guilt to always talk abt future to him. I decided I don't care wat he do with his money nu. But I'm juz feeling bored. Therla I'm introvert so so

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Connect with psychologist to resolve inner confusion ...  Read More

We have been married for 2.5 years ...we have two kids and we had a very satisfying sexual life during the last 2 years ....my wife's sexual interest reduces gradually and now she is having no interest in sex ...my sex desire is very high and sex time is approximately 40-45 minutes....pls help to solve this problem...is there any medicine required

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Take consultation ...  Read More

Recently I find it very hard to make any decisions. Procrastinating habit has started. Because of the delay in decision making and procrastination, professional life is getting impacted which in turn is affecting peace in personal life. Making up my mind to face/tackle it and it works out for a few days/weeks then it'll start again. Please suggest

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I appreciate your efforts to overcome it.. Sometimes, you might need more actions from different perspectives to overcome this issue.. I suggest you to consult a psychological Counselor to overcome t ...  Read More

Please read all its for my life changing. Hi I'm facing problem from down side of ribs to testis od right side area from 1 year.i go many doctors. One doctor dignoces me with ultrasound of scrotal and tell me it's showing grade 2 vericocele and need surgery.and another doctor tell dignoces me with ultrasound sound KUB and Uroflowmetry tests .in tha

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Consult for discussion and treatment ...  Read More

My wife doesn't show intrest in anything in her life . I have thought to consult a counseling to understand and make herself better. Does counseling help her better.

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The information you have given is very less. Kindly consult a psychologist for help. A therapist would definitely help you. ...  Read More

I am slowing losing interest from various things in life. Year by year I am getting weaker in academics. Traditions and festivals have become like a formality for me. I can't make efforts towards my family or even towards my girlfriend. I just feel comfortable living alone, away from everyone. I can't socialise with anyone in my college. Slowly, I

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seems like you're experiencing a sense of disconnection and a lack of interest in things that once mattered to you. This can happen for various reasons, such as stress, burnout, unresolved emotional c ...  Read More

My father aged 51yrs had heart attack 10 months back and undergone pci for the same Now the lvf has improved from 35% to 50% And every report is normal now What can be the approx life expectancy of the patient?

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It will be as of others with same age group. ...  Read More

I can't live without my parents every second of my life I just remembering my mother love which she has for me even my father they are not here so I am Ending my life because I can't survive without them 💔

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Hi, It's clear that you have a deep love for your parents and their presence meant a lot to you. It's important to remember that while they may not physically be with you, their love and guidance will ...  Read More

I have been out of work for long and I am having trouble getting back in. It's primarily because of my lack of confidence, but also because I freeze up in interviews and can't make up stuff that could easily get me an offer letter. I try to learn new skills , but I am easily distracted and things start to feel overwhelming , so I quit things quickl

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Hi, Consult a psychiatrist immediately if you have suicidal thoughts. ...  Read More

HELLO RESPECTED DOCTORS . I'M SUFFERING FROM CARDIOPHOBIA AND PANIC DISORDER CONFIRMED BY PSYCHIATRY... ALL MY TESTS ARE NORMAL ECG ECHO and TMT NEGATIVE... I WANNA PLAY SPORTS, GO TO GYM AND LIVE a LIFE LIKE OTHERS BUT THIS CARDIO FEAR IS VERY DISTURBING ME... yesterday i read a 20 yrs old guy dead doing Gym and its making me panick again 😞

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You can do “Yoga” ...  Read More

Frequent headaches and persistent lethargy are plaguing me. I find little enjoyment in my job, and the resulting stress seems to manifest physically. This discomfort is making daily life boring. Seeking advice..

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Kindly consult a psychiatrist and get your stress evaluated. If untreated it can affect you physically, psychologically and also your interpersonal interactions in daily life. ...  Read More

From the past few months, i have been noticing that i have lost interest in living a life. I am a 27 years old guy, i opted for a professional course in 2017, but couldn't be able to complete the education due to financial and responsibility burden. Now in this month i am going to be 28 years old, but not yet settled in life. Not having a proper de

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I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way, but it's important to recognize that you don't have to face these challenges alone. It's understandable that you're feeling overwhelmed, but plea ...  Read More

I am so confused about my life goals and not able to get focus my life and not able to control my life iam always worrying about my career but iam doing nothing for betterment of my future And i feel like i dont have anybody to talk about this Is anyone available to talk freely about my life and to help my life get together Helps for few days Any

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Hi Thanks for reaching out. You are worried about your career and the future. It is natural to worry about career, life goals and future. What you are feeling is natural, a lot of people are worried ...  Read More

I have dilemma to choose between two options .I tried many things to solve it like search online ,saw YouTube videos,talk with family, wirte pros and cons for both , even take career counseling, career assessment but seems like nothing is working . I am scared to choose one ,lost interest in work or career ,something it's feel that I'm not able to

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May be you should try once more,May be you need to choose one and back it,may be you are not well that’s why you are having confusion. You should consult to Psychiatrist. ...  Read More

I can't live my life. I am scared of my life. I spent my life daydreaming and i think it's finished. I hate my thoughts. I don't want them but they still come. I can't move on. But i don't want to lose hope. I want to conquer. But i think all is finished.

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Negative thoughts work in pattern and you can break them once you understand in therapy the root cause of it .Slowly with collaborative work with therapist these can change to positive thoughts .I am. ...  Read More

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