My wife is suffering from hallucinations/delusions for a long time. She always says someone is spraying insecticide on her, so her body aches, headache and itching in body starts. She began abusing and cursing the neighbors for this and become aggressive and violent. I am in Govt. Service. Due to her problem and behaviour everywhere I am badly demoralised. I opted for transfer due to this 4 times and came to 4 cities. Place changes, but her symptoms remain unchanged. Whenever I ask for psychiatric treatment, she says she has been affected by Jadu-Tona and Tantra vidya, and only Tantrik can solve her problems. I consulted a Psychiatrist who prescribed some medicine, but she strongly denies to take it, saying that she is not mad. My family life and children are badly affected. I need your kind help, please.
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Hi hallucination and delusions are psychotic symptom seen in condition such as schizophrenia,bipolar disorder with psychotic conditions, severe depression,Delirium, dementia etc treatment require multi model approaches. Through assessment. Pharma logical treatment,psychosocial treatment.
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First, go to the clinical psychologist and psychiatric with the help of counselling and medication, after that,if condition is not good, so admit in hospital
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Thanks for reaching out. Based on what you have mentioned your wife needs psychiatric help. You can use a different approach for psychiatric consultation..You can check if there is a psychiatrist who can come home and treat her. I understand the situation is difficult for you and you are worried about your wife and family. It is important for you to take care of your well-being.
Consult a psychiatrist and explain about the methods you have tried to get your wife to seek treatment and take medication. A psychiatrist will understand your situation and guide you on what can be done.
Take help from your family and talk to them about consulting a psychiatrist to treat your wife. Rely on them for help and support. If the situation is making you feel extremely anxious you can consult a psychologist for individual sessions. Family counselling is also a good option. You and your family can explain about your wife’s condition to a psychologist. A psychologist will guide you and your family on effective ways to support each other and help your wife get psychiatric treatment.
You and your family members have to be calm. It will create a supportive and empathetic environment for your wife.
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Consult a psychiatrist and explain about your wife’s condition. You can opt for individual counselling. Family counselling is also a good option.
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Contact me for counselling sessions. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
It seems to be schizoaffective Schizophrenia. It needs to be ruled out and needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects.
If she refuses to take medicine then you can give her in the form of mixing into water, milk or food. Medicine needs to enter into her body anyhow.
Once her symptoms are better then she can be convinced by an expert to take medicines. Leave that effort to the experts. They know how to deal with such problems.
It needs to be treated in a holistic approach for complete recovery.
You need an expert Psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
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This is a deeply distressing situation for you and your family. The symptoms you describe, her delusions about insecticide and 'Jadu-Tona,' aggressive behavior, and a refusal to acknowledge her illness are classic indicators of a serious psychotic disorder. As a psychologist, my primary advice is to understand that her beliefs are part of the illness itself and you cannot reason her out of them. The next step is to get her professional help, which may require a different approach than your last attempt. You should also seek support for yourself and your children, as this is a traumatic and stressful experience for the entire family.
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Your wife is showing psychotic symptoms (hallucinations, delusions, aggression) and not jadu-tona. This illness needs psychiatric treatment, but since she has no insight, she refuses medicines. In such cases, avoid arguments, focus on her suffering, and involve a psychiatrist. If she becomes violent, the Mental Health Care Act allows hospital admission even without her consent. Your family’s well-being depends on getting her treated.
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Her symptoms of hallucinations, delusions, aggression, and denial of treatment suggest she may be experiencing a serious psychiatric condition, such as psychosis or schizophrenia, which requires professional medical intervention. Itâs important to approach her with compassion and patience, emphasizing her well-being and safety. Since she refuses treatment and believes in spiritual or traditional remedies, involving a mental health professional who specializes in such cases can help in finding a way to persuade her to accept necessary medical care. You may also consider consulting a psychiatrist or a clinical psychologist for guidance on how to approach her and for possible legal or social support options, such as guardianship if her condition worsens. Additionally, reaching out to mental health helplines, local mental health authorities, or support groups can provide you with guidance, emotional support, and resources to better manage this crisis and protect your familyâs well-being. Remember, her condition is treatable, and professional medical help is crucial for her recovery and for restoring peace in your family life.
I understand how difficult it must be for you with your wife’s illness and children and your career, People with psychosis often lack insight. In her mind, she is 100% correct. She doesn’t see herself as ill, so asking her to “take medicine” feels insulting and makes her defensive. That’s why directly insisting usually fails. If she refuses daily tablets, psychiatrists can use injections that last weeks to months. These reduce relapse and improve compliance. Document incidents (aggression, harm to self/others, neglect of children). This helps if you need to legally push for treatment. Get family support. Involve a trusted elder, sibling, or religious leader who she respects to encourage care. Limit confrontation. Don’t argue with her beliefs about jadu-tona; redirect conversations instead. Protect your children. Make sure they aren’t directly exposed to abuse or violence. If needed, arrange temporary safe space with relatives. Stay under regular psychiatric guidance. Even if she’s not cooperating now, keep the psychiatrist updated. They’ll guide when forced admission is appropriate.
From your description, your wife seems to be experiencing persistent delusions and hallucinations, which are signs of a serious mental health condition that requires psychiatric treatment. Since she does not have insight into her illness, it is common for her to deny medication or treatment, but this does not mean she cannot be helped. I strongly recommend that you consult a psychiatrist again, preferably in person. In the meantime, avoid directly challenging her beliefs, but show empathy for her suffering and encourage treatment in a supportive way. Please also take care of your own emotional health, as caregiver stress is very common, and seek support if needed.
From what you describe, your wife seems to be experiencing psychotic symptoms (hallucinations, delusions of being spied upon, suspiciousness, irritability). These are not intentional behaviors – they are illness-driven experiences. People in such states often lack insight (don’t believe they are ill), which is why she resists treatment.
• Do not argue with her delusions – If you try to convince her “no one is spying,” she may feel you’re siding with the enemy. Instead, acknowledge her distress without validating the false belief.
• avoid confrontation – Aggressive replies can worsen her suspicion.
• Ensure safety – If she becomes aggressive toward herself, the children, or neighbors, prioritize safety and don’t hesitate to seek urgent medical help.
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These symptoms require psychiatric intervention – usually antipsychotic medication and sometimes psychotherapy later.
• Since she is not ready, you may:
• Encourage a neutral check-up: Sometimes presenting it as a “general health issue” body aches, stress, sleep problem can bring her to a doctor, where the psychiatrist can assess her.
• Involve a trusted relative/friend: Sometimes she may agree if the suggestion comes from someone she trusts.
• Emergency option: If her behavior becomes aggressive or violent under Indian Mental Healthcare Act (2017), close relatives can request involuntary admission with a psychiatrist’s evaluation.
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