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Hello man, am a mother of 2.5 years old boy. Both myself and my husband are working in corporate. Am always love to spend with my son and husband if am free. But am husband said to spend time with him in weekend, but am free in weekend and I need to spend time with both my husband and son. Am so confused don't know what to do. Felt very Disturbed. Pls suggest.
I love my husband a lot and my son too. Am felt bad when I leave my son to my in laws in weekend.
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You both need to seek couple counseling sessions to correct your perception and decision making skills.
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You are your husband are working in corporate and it seems like you and your husband are busy with work. You have a two and half year old son and you want to enjoy a quality and fun time with your husband and son. From what you have mentioned you are not able to spend time with your son during the weekend. He spends time with your in laws during the weekend. You can talk to your husband about wanting to enjoy quality time with him and your son. You can also talk to a psychologist and explain about what is in your mind and how you would like to spend time with your family. I understand you want to have a great time with your husband and son. With a psychologist you can work out ways to enjoy quality family time. A psychologist will guide you on ways to balance professional life and personal life. To feel better you can work on feeling calm and optimistic.
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Consult a psychologist
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Contact me for counselling session. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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Hi, I am sorry that this is hurting you. I see that the problem is coming between choosing between two people you want to spend time with. We will have to sit together and figure out what is your goal with respect to your relationships and also your value system and then find a solution towards fulfilling your own needs so you feel happy and content.
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Book a session with me to understand this at a deeper level. Happy healing ❤️
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Ms. Komal Singh Parihar
Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
Hello dear
I can understand what you might be feeling and going through. It might be hard to make decisions regarding dividing and managing your time between your son and husband.
Don't worry, you can seek couple counselling from a good therapist or a psychologist as soon as possible.
You can also contact me and I will try to help you in this. Let's discuss your issues in detail so that you can get towards your solution.
Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... Your query is bit unclear. Please clarify, if this is your first marriage & you and your husband have a 2.5 yr old son together. And he is asking you to spend time with him alone on weekends and not your son. If this is the case both of you require parent counselling as you both are unable to prioritize your personal life, professional life, and your parental responsibilities. Just providing for your child's food, shelter, education, etc. does not fulfils all responsibility as parents. His emotional, social, and behavioural development is also very important and your primary responsibility as parents. You can choose to ignore it now but you both will have to face the consequences of such choices in your later life, especially old age. Be mindful of your choices.
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Consult a Psychologist.
Interpersonal Guidance and Parent Counselling is required.
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Ms. Smriti
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hello try to play family games in weekdays and try to give husband and child together that your can have a good bond.counseling will help you to know the answer of problem in larger extent.
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