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My parents have no regret for the wrong they have done to me.At present I am jobless suffering from bad health issues and having strong sibling rivalry as well.it feels as if I am living in a war zone.things do not stop here due to their wrong decisions regarding anti psychotics now my life carrer and enjoyment all are finished
They enjoy life while I remain sad all time due to their wrong decisions.i m 34 now and suffering since I was 17 years old only due to wrong decision of parents.The main issue is they do not realize that they have done something wrong that has broken me completely.
I feel like dying all the time due to multiple health issues at present only due to side effects of allopathic and homeopathic medicines taken that did not suit me instead those medicines worsened my condition.now I don't know what to do.
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Hi,
I'm truly sorry you're going through such intense pain and distress. Itâs important to seek professional help from a mental health counselor or psychiatrist who can provide support, guidance, and treatment tailored to your situation. Connecting with a trusted therapist can help you process your feelings, cope with your health issues, and find ways to rebuild your life. Remember, you donât have to face this aloneâthere are people who want to help you through these difficult times. Prioritize reaching out for support and taking small steps toward healing.
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Hi, please mention the health issues you are having and the past history also.
Now, for the concern you have mentioned, I would like to request you one thing, if you keep blaming yourself the loop will continue.
Try to think about a situation where you can do something better for yourself.
I know it's not easy from your position, but at least try and please consult a psychologist for therapy sessions and discuss everything.
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Thank you for sharing something so painful and personal. What comes through clearly is that you’ve been carrying an enormous burden — for 17 years — and a significant part of you feels completely broken and unseen.
From an IFS (Internal Family Systems) perspective, what you’re describing makes a lot of sense. When we experience harm from the very people who were supposed to protect us — especially early in life — different parts of us respond to survive that pain. Some parts carry rage at the injustice. Some carry grief. Some carry the exhaustion of fighting alone for so long. And there may be a part that has started to believe that things can never get better.
That last part — the one that feels like dying — deserves to be heard, not dismissed. It is telling you how much pain is present. But it is a part of you, not the whole of you.
The fact that you can articulate your experience this clearly, and reach out — that too is a part of you. One that hasn’t given up.
What might help right now:
This level of accumulated pain — family trauma, health consequences, career loss, and ongoing conflict at home — is genuinely complex. It needs a safe, structured space to be processed, not just managed. A trauma-informed therapist, particularly one trained in IFS or EMDR, can help you:
- Understand and unburden the parts carrying decades of pain
- Separate what happened to you from who you are
- Begin to rebuild from the inside, even while external circumstances remain hard
You deserve support that goes beyond advice. Please consider reaching out — this is exactly what therapy is for.
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If this resonate with you book an appointment and explore these parts and build your capacity to be self-led and find a way forward instead of staying in this war zone
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Hello, thank you for sharing this.
It sounds like you’ve been carrying a lot of pain, anger, and hurt for many years, and it’s completely understandable to feel overwhelmed in such a situation.
Right now, the focus should be on your healing and well-being, rather than waiting for others to acknowledge their mistakes. With the right support, you can work on processing these emotions, rebuilding your sense of control, and improving your mental and physical health.
You don’t have to go through this alone—please consider reaching out for professional support to help you navigate this step by step.
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Hi,
I understand how deeply exhausted, hurt, and overwhelmed you feel. Carrying this for so many years, along with health struggles and feeling unheard can make everything feel unbearable.
What happened in the past matters, and your anger and grief are valid. At the same time, waiting for your parents to recognise or admit fault can keep you tied to that pain. Your healing does not have to depend on their awareness.
You should consult and in seeking an independent opinion from a qualified psychiatrist - psychologist this is an important step towards healing and making you feel better in managing what you are going through in a positive effective manner.
I also want to say this clearly: feeling like you want to die is a sign that the pain has become too intense, not that there is no way forward. You don’t have to manage this alone.
For now, keep it simple and focused:
• Create a basic daily structure (sleep, meals, small activity)
• Limit exposure to conflict where possible
• Stay connected to at least one safe person
• Take this one day at a time
With the right support and care, things can shift. Over time, you can begin to feel more stable, regain a sense of control, and build the tools needed to navigate and manage what you’re going through.
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Start with very small, doable steps each day to rebuild a sense of control and reduce overwhelm. Write down your symptoms and experiences clearly so you can communicate them confidently during a medical review. Practice grounding techniques (like slow breathing or focusing on your senses) when thoughts feel too intense.
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Consultation with me is suggested
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It seems to be post traumatic psychological changes, which needs to be addressed asap otherwise it may get complicated.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects.
It needs to be addressed in a holistic approach for complete recovery.
You need an expert Psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
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I have been working as a Homeopathic Psychiatrist and Counseling psychologist for the last 17 years of experience. You can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance.
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Mr. Sandeep Kumar
Psychologist
15 yrs exp
Chandigarh
Dear concerned,
It sounds like you are carrying a heavy burden of resentment and physical pain, and it’s vital that you connect with a mental health professional or a crisis helpline immediately to talk through these feelings and find safe, supportive care
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Ms. Neha Sachdev
Psychologist
11 yrs exp
Delhi
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It’s time to get hold on your life.. what you have gone through must be packed up and thrown. Self compassion and how to work in routine needs attention.
Parents had pure intention too, whatever they could do to help you and comfort you was done.
Come forward and let’s work towards it
U can contact me at eight three six eight zero five three seven one zero
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Ms. Pooja Bhargava
Psychologist
10 yrs exp
Delhi
You’ve been carrying deep pain for a long time and it’s understandable you feel overwhelmed. Reach out to a psychologist to understand how you can emotionally support yourself and slowly rebuild a sense of stability
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Ms. Smriti
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18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Connect with psychologist to discuss in detail
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