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I am from nuclear family,and after marriage also I am in nuclear family but my husband is totally mammas boy and never gives importance to me.
He doubts me if I go to office,I should not use any social media including whatsapp,insta,Facebook,
I should not go to my relatives home except my parent that too yearly thrice or twice,
I should not financially help my parents( me and my younger sister are the children of my parents)
He always tongs me
But my MIL does everything above mentioned and she taunts me if I fight with him for the above things and she is always her son's side, as a women she has to advice his son but she never do that,
In our home everyone is careless about me I am so depressed. Since I am from family who gives value for the society I can't leave my husband too and not able to adjust to this environment too.
My parents were giving lot of importance to me but now no 1cares my opinion and I am like option for them.
I am so disturbed and depressed. Please help me
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Counseling do resolve inner conflict.relaxation therapy
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Your husband listens to your mother and not you. He is controlling certain aspects of your life which is making you feel uncomfortable and upset. You are not getting support from anyone at home. You have a right to visit your family and help them financially. You are doing the best you can to take care of your husband and his family. You can communicate with your husband about your basic rights. To feel better consult a psychologist and talk about what you are going through.
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Contact me for counseling session. Along with counseling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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stress management
CBT for depression
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I think the best option for you is to part ways with him as it is hampering your freedom. If you ll think of society then you ll lose your freedom. Remember it is you living and experiencing your life not the society.
And you are young you have lot to see in life. Do not waste your life losing your freedom.
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Part ways
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Know your value first and value yourself by parting ways
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Do Consult a psychological Counselor for a therapy to overcome this issue by understanding yourself better..
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... Marriage is a big shift in one's life and sometimes people get into it either considering it a stage in their relationship (love) or not thinking much about it and going with the flow (arranged). Marriage is an institution (socially and legally protected) designed to provide and raise a family. You have parents/siblings because a couple decided to get married and raise a family. No two couple's/family's situation is comparable, but we are very likely to compare our marital relationship with that of our parents, as it forms the basis of our marital expectations. In such situations there are no right and wrong people, but just people with different expectations and insecurities. You will need marital counselling and guidance to help you achieve better outcomes.
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Marital Counselling and Guidance is required.
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