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Cant overcome the depression
I had a break up with my girl due to family problems. I dont want the parents to feel the pain if i go out and do marriage. I tried getting their permission. But it got failed. Its been 3 years... Now my parents are seeing alliance and i am always telling no interest. I have also stopped talking with the girl ... Very Rarely occasional texts to just check how she is ... I have got no interest in my personal life.. Just spending time with my friends is temporary solution. But how long will friends come once they got married. Feeling depressed both in heart and couldn't take proper decision. Friends suggesting atleast make your parents happy by marrying the girl they chose. But couldnot overcome the pain and still thinking about old memories.. please advise..
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Did u speak to your parents regarding this Or you believe that they will not Accept?!.....
Because you feel they will not accept, you had decided to breakup the relationship.
Will that stop your parents from searching an alliance for you?
I feel all three of you, yourself, your girlfriend and your parents are not happy with the decision you have taken and not taken.
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Do consult a Psychologist to understand and to take a better decision.
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Hi I can understand your pain but if you were in a serious relationship and have decided to move on you will definitely need sometime. I would recommend stop pushing yourself so hard to get married to someone else until and unless you are fully ready to. All individuals are different so don't go by suggestions of others. Moreover I think we would also need a detailed description concerning the duration of your relationship and some other details to provide you with a individualised plan. Counselling sessions by a Psychologist online or face to face will definitely help you.
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