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How to break the cycle
In an argument he needs space I need his presence. Where at the end he leave hurtful words to push away. To make him understand I need to wait for days in no contact. I have to suffer in silence to make him understand. But eventually he understands and apologize but it is happening again and again like pattern. Also I don’t have breaks but I have to give no other options. Also I have family issues can’t cope up both. How to handle?
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We can understand your concern, there are certain ways to cope up,
I have already mentioned it
Do not worry, you are not alone,
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Hi.. consult online for counseling
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Try talking to him calmly when both of you are not angry, and tell him clearly that hurtful words are not okay.
You both have different needs during fights, and that’s causing this pattern.
Try not to blame yourself , you deserve understanding too. If he’s open, couples therapy can help you both communicate better.
Till then, take small breaks for yourself and don’t keep all the pain inside , talk to someone you trust or a psychiatrist/therapist
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Take some work on these issues. They are common issues between people in relationships and it can be worked on.
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Ms. Sheetal Kusumbe
Counselling Psychologist
21 yrs exp
Thane
Hello,
Your stress over handling the relationship dynamics is understandable.
The equation with your partner requires a balance, where you both can assess the root of this repeated pattern.
Couple therapy sessions can help both of you overcome this loop and navigate through the relationship smoothly.
The stronger the relationship with the partner the better you both can operate as a team to cope with other relations.
You can consult for further professional guidance.
Happy Healthy Living!
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