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Can a man not love a woman and still see her for a continuous period of two months. He acts like he loves her but says doesnt love her. He holds hands, makes deep eye contacts, laughs together and stands by in ups and downs. One day he leaves and blocks her on everything and 6 months past by. Did he love her or was with her because he felt alone. Or does he hate her because he didn't contacted her for almost 6 months. Please tell
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Hi, i am sorry you are feeling this way. I am sure this is tough. It looks like this man is playing hot and cold with you. It looks like he has his own emotional issues to deal with at the same time and hence he vanishes from time to time. His vanishing away from the scene has to do more with him than you. I understand that the relationship is purely love from your side but it doesn’t look like he is ready to embrace and take in that feeling. It’s brave to fall in love and even though it hurts to be left this way we should love because that shows we are human. What would life be without that softness and emotions, just a monotonous task of running the day like a robot?! Open your heart! Stay brave!
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Hi, Instead of assuming and self blaming you should take some actions.
If you think that he is in love with you ,you should try to contact him through your friends or give him more time.May be he needs some time.
Uncertainty causes worries and stress.
If you can't wait, accept the situation and move on.You didn't mention that he told you that he is in love with you.
You cannot control others behaviour and actions.
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Consult a psychologist
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Accept yourself
Accept the reality
Evaluate your strengths and move forward .
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Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time."
–Maya Angelou
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Was it openly expressed by both of you.. Or it was your wish or expectation that he is also liking you..
Do seek a professional support to get a clarity and understanding about yourself..
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... There can be n number of reasons why he acted the way he did and what he feels for you now. It's hard to judge human behaviour from a third person's perspective. We need to include that person's version to come to a reasonable conclusion. Somehow reading this I felt as if he suffer from 'fear of abandonment'. But we can't be sure of it based on your narration. I would suggest you talk to him face to face, whenever he is willing and figure out what you guys want to have together. Love is a very generic concept, it does not requires to be of romantic nature always. Remember, acceptance is the key.
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Consult a Psychologist.
Interpersonal Relationship Counselling is required.
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Ms. Manasi Tambe
Counselling Psychologist
2 yrs exp
Pune
Hi,
Please read the book divorceless relationships and relationship- are you sure you want one by Simone milasas. Both the books will provide you with the clarity you are looking for.
Please book an appointment with a counselor on practo for further assistance.
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Ms. Smriti
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi..it need to be resolved by counseling for deeper understanding.
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