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When I was staying in hostel room at one night I don't know what happen next morning my roommate showed me a photo on that photo my hands are inside my pants I don't know how it happened he fought with me saying that why are you mastubrating Infront of us still I can't even completing college I'cant overcome this tought I feel my self as a pervert I have mastubrated publicly now if you are reading this post just say wether iam a good person or pervert
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Hi. There are many things which are not clear and so nthg can be said what exactly happened why and how until u visit a clinical psychologist and get a proper eval done
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Pl see a clinical psychologist
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Relax. I understand u feel shamed and hurt. Masturbating is normal and healthy. It’s not something that u can be held against for. U are not a pervert. I trust u and don’t think u have done any crime.
I know u feel embarrassed having been caught off guard.
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Let’s connect over a session and explore what concerns u
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Hi Thanks for reaching out... from what you have written I am not able to understand the incident fully . But I am able to understand how you are feeling ... it is very upsetting and disturbing to be humiliated by peers... I would like you to be aware that masturbating is common and nothing wrong in it . Of course it should be a private thing ... if this is a one time incident then you don’t have to feel so bad about it ... I am sure all of us has done some thing or other publicly which is not appropriate and humiliate ourselves . If it in not stand alone incident then you need help.... talk to some expert who can help you regarding this. You are a good person that why you are talking about it and seeking help . Pat you back for that.
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Book an appointment via Practo to clear your mind.
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Keep you self engaged. Do exercise, eat healthy sleep well . Thinking about sex is normal in this age but every should be in moderation
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Masturbation & night emissions are proof that u r man enough..chill it happens with everyone..u r not alone.
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Dr. Poonam Poonia (PhD)
Clinical Psychologist
28 yrs exp
Gurgaon
This is an incident which happened during sleep.one incident can't decide it. Stop thinking about it. This can't decide whether you are good or bad. What makes one person good or bad just a thought, there is nothing good or bad.
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Pl find a psychologist around your area and start sessions.
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Control your thinking
You are not a bad person
Respect your self
Focus in your career,
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Dr. Mustafa Mun (PhD)
Clinical Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Mumbai
You’ve expressed your emotions in public which is socially unacceptable
Next time avoid it
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Ms. Neha Ravichandran
Counselling Psychologist
10 yrs exp
Bangalore
This is not a situation for a counselor to judge. The information seems less.
Though you judging your self as a pervert may not be right, till will understand the complete situation.
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Counselling
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Practo online / in clinic session : Neha Ravichandran
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