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Struggling with Sound Sensitivity
I am 21 years old. For the past 8 years, I get very irritated by the sound of chewing food, and for the past 1 year, the sound from my mother’s throat also irritates me a lot. It makes me very angry, and sometimes when I hear her voice, I feel like ending my life. I want to sit and talk with my mother, but I am unable to do so. I feel like this will never get better. I have now completely given up.
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I want to acknowledge how much courage it takes to voice these struggles. Often, we treat mental health as a matter of 'willpower,' but as a psychiatrist, I can tell you that what you are experiencing has a real biological and neurological basis. ​Your brain, like any other organ, can sometimes struggle to maintain balance under stress. Seeking treatment isn't a sign of failure; it’s a proactive medical decision to regain your quality of life. We can work together to understand the 'why' behind these feelings and find a structured path back to your baseline. You don't have to navigate this alone.
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Hi What you’re experiencing is very real and very distressing, and I want you to know that this does not mean something is wrong with you as a person. This pattern strongly reflects misophonia, where certain sounds like chewing or throat noises trigger an intense emotional and physical reaction. Over the years, your brain has become highly sensitized to these sounds, which is why the reaction now feels immediate, overwhelming, and even linked to anger and hopeless thoughts. The part where you still want to sit and talk to your mother shows that your core need for connection is intact, it’s just getting blocked by this conditioned response. Right now, instead of forcing yourself to tolerate these triggers, we focus on reducing the intensity and giving you control back. You can start by creating small buffers like using background noise or stepping away when triggered, and learning calming techniques to settle your body in that moment. Alongside this, structured therapy can gradually retrain your brain’s response and also help you process the emotional exhaustion and suicidal thoughts you’re carrying. This is treatable, and people do improve with the right approach, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. You don’t have to give up here. For more counselling and therapy, you can contact me on nine nine two six seven two six zero six five
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This sounds like Misophonia, which can cause intense anger to specific sounds. You’re not alone, and it can improve with therapy (CBT, sound desensitization) and sometimes medication. Right now, please don’t ignore the thoughts of harming yourself—reach out to someone you trust or a mental health professional urgently. You deserve relief and support
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Hello, Thank you for sharing your concern here. Your dilemma is understandable and also the long struggle associated with it. The factors could be beyond the sound itself and more in the relationship with your mother. The hesitation in communication also highlights the blockages you are facing. Counseling sessions can help you attain more awareness about the root cause of this stimulation and development of coping mechanisms towards tolerance and progressive healing. Further insight into the pattern of reactions,whether they are limited to the sound or beyond it as well can be beneficial. In the meantime, you can try to focus on the more likable attributes of your mother. This shall help you to operate in a more balanced manner. Deep Breathing Exercises can help you to manage the overhelm and function in a healthy manner. You have taken the first step to better the situation. I wish you All the Best. You can consult for further professional guidance. Happy Healthy Living!
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