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Struggle of a working woman with toddler
I am mother of two years toddler. I have been doing wfh since the time my baby is 8 months old .Recently my toddler has become too clingy that iam not able to find time even to work...I also have some medical treatment going . I ask my husband to take care of baby for sometime,he says she doesn't come to me so how can I take care of her.I told him that baby's don't come to us they keep playing but u should try to improve your bond by playing with her or taking her out. My parents living with us are  conservative.No matter how many times I tell them that we need a maid so that I can take care of baby amd office work,my mom says she doesn't like maid roaming in home..But she wants everything to be clean and perfect in home and that too as soon as possible.I can do household work but ony when I get time from baby and work.She can't wait till then and starts cleaning all by herself.Later both parents come to me and say u r treating us like maids,u r incompetent .I feel lost in this world..
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You need counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine to come out of it. It needs to be addressed asap otherwise it may get complicated. You need an expert psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
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I have been working as a Homeopathic Psychiatrist for the last 17 years. you can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance.
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Hi, Situation can be overwhelming for you, but we can find solution. Certain changes in our behavior & communication can make things work. consult for detail understanding Take care
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Hi, Children can be very clingy with a particular person where they get love and safety.You need to find a solution by yourself.You can consult a psychologist for professional help.
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Hello, Your situation is quite understandable. You are feeling overwhelmed at the situation at hand. Duties of a mother, wife, daughter and your work are all demanding your time and effort. You have the potential to seek a balance.The first person you need to take care of, is yourself. Take care of your physical and mental health to fulfill all your duties efficiently. Some strategies can be helpful: - You need not please everybody and delegate work as per your judgement. There may be opposition but people do come around. - Be assertive in your communication. - Healthy boundaries take care of your and others needs. - Ensure you get some "Me time" to gain clarity and control over your situation. - Kindly manage your work timings so that you can give quality time to your child at this stage and contribute to your work meaningfully. Moreover, this is a temporary phase and you can definitely manage well. You can benefit from counseling sessions. Connect for further professional guidance. Happy Healthy Living!
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You  need to create  boundaries  and set limits for everyone..you can't pour from empty cup.connect to discuss  in detail
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