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Stress and overthinking
Dear Doctor,
I have been facing stressful situations at times.
Recently married and in course of this marriage when I discuss my point of view with my wife ,instead of understanding me ,she retaliate and get stubborn and take discussion to argument. In same process she makes many statements which may be thrown at me in anger but turns out those words and aggression of her stays in mind and let me overthink.
I have been trying to ease her but in such situations I feel very low in confidence which has started to affect me mentally . Sometimes I have sleepless nights, sometimes I feel my heartbeats are rushing at max speeds and sweat, sometimes I breakdown and start crying when I am alone.
All these has weakened me from inside and affecting my health and family life as well.
Due to sleeplessness at night during day I feel tired and can't concentrate on work.
I tried to talk with her to resolve issues but we couldn't reach on stable ground.I get less attention compared to others by her.
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The symptoms that you have mentioned are a telltale sign of stress and anxiety. I understand how hurtful your wife's words may have been for you--even if she didn't mean them, you perceived them in a different way and have been overthinking about them. You may be feeling like no one understands you. On top of that, you also mentioned that your wife doesn't pay as much attention to you as she does to others. I think counselling can help you improve your confidence, stress, and relationship with your wife.
I invite you to join counselling sessions with me to get to the bottom of your issues.
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Hi, you can explain about the situation regarding your wife in detail with a psychologist. I understand you are upset and stressed and you are not able to sleep well. To feel better consult a psychologist and counseling sessions will help you.
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This much information is not enough.specially your point of view needs more clarification. Consult a clinical psychologist.
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consult a clinical psychologist
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
As each of one of us are unique, we all have our own opinions and experiences..
When two people talk on a same subject, there is a possibility to have differences in their opinions.
That at times turn up into an ugly arguments and fights..
I would suggest both of you to consult a Marriage Counselor to understand yourself better and to understand each other...
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https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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Dr. Chellam Narendiran (PhD)
Counselling Psychologist
12 yrs exp
Coimbatore
Hi,
Do understand your position. Based on the brief, it looks like an adjustment issues. Though the shared information doesn't carry any specific details, would try to help you with some suggestions: (1) Be vary in choosing words (2) Listen her point of view and give importance (3) Practice pause when you get angry, which helps to avoid fights and throwing tantrums at each other (4) Give her sometime to get back to normal state, till than be patience (5) Work on yourself.
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Recommend to consult a relationship counsellor
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