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Still loving some1 madly who don't deser
I m in relationship with my bf. Bt frm last few months i ws dating a guy n i started loving him. He ws also with me.I told him everything tht me n my bf hd all the things, he also accepted me. I told him tht v will officially get in relationship after 1 yr till u to pls do stdy well n get job till then i will complete my mtech n aftr tht i will told my bf about this. bt he ws forcing me to tell at tht tm nly. n I couldn't tell him bcoz it ws start of his career. He ws newly appointed as a lectu
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Hello, To expect is being human. Perhaps that is what makes humans different from all other living species. So having expectations is very normal, but it is important to see whether these expectations are within the capacity of your partner or not. You must check whether these expectations are realistic or not. If you feel that telling to your bf about all this is not realistic, then certainly this all is causing you pain from such a long time and also you are neither here nor there. This is affecting your everyday life  adversely in some ways. But incase if you don't  find this new boy really really  good and it is worth to be, then you need to maje the decision. Our experts help you to understand yourself deeply to see where is the disparity and why is it there. Also our experts help you to convey your world to your partner in ways where it is easily comprehensible. As per our experience most people have questions like – why doesn’t my partner not understand what I need ?. But the irony is that they have never been able to get the answer. They don’t know that they need to come out of their emotion of helplessness and explore the answer. Only then they can collaborate with their partner to create solutions.  If you wish to create a new satisfying relationship with your partner, you can come and share your situation with our expert psychologists. They will help you to see the deeper reasons which you are not aware of till date. And if you get to know the reasons behind such an air between the two of you, you have a chance now, to work towards mutually satisfying relationships. Ofcourse it is possible. Incase your partner is willing, we will certainly be happy to get your partner also working along with you, as it becomes relatively easier and quicker. But still if your partner doesn’t wish to come, you can turn the tables alone too, if you are committed. So come to us and see where you are and tell us where you want to be and we can help you be there. We recommend that you must speak to our expert psychologists and share your situation briefly over the phone. Doing so, you will get to know the complete step by step process on how we will go about solving your specific concern. And then you can take your own time to decide. We assure you with utmost care during this phone talk and at all the times ahead. We assure that utmost confidentiality will be maintained. You can call us to fix the appointment or get more information as needed by you. We will surely help bring positivity in your life. Subscribe to YOUTUBE CHANNEL – KAMAL KHURANA  (300 PLUS VIDEOS). You can type in Youtube “communication skills kamal khurana”. You can also purchase our book “It’s Ok by Kamal Khurana published by Notion Press”. This book is available at Notion Press. Also you can go to our website www.kamalkhurana.com. The book is available at this site. You can also watch our videos at Youtube. The channel name is KAMAL KHURANA. There are 300 plus videos on the channel and it can help you understand PHONE COUNSELLING ALSO AVAILABLE   God Bless You.   Thanks and Regards, Kamal Khurana  (Psychologist)  
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