Rude behavioue. So she have cool nature!

Try these tips and techniques 1.Understand the meaning behind the behavior. 2. Focus on controlling yourself—not your child. 3. Be consistent with your expectations. 4. Give attention to the behavior you like—not the behavior you don't. 5. Redirect Kids who hear "No" or "Don't" all the time tend to tune those directives out. So instead of telling your child what not to do, offer a positive behavior to replace the misbehavior. 6. Don't bribe. It may be tempting to offer your child a cookie for behaving well during an outing. Offering a child a reward sends the wrong message; what kids hear is "'You don't want to be very good and you have to be paid off,''

Seek mental health professional help if the problem persists

It’s about a ‘positive parenting! ‘ Family planning & parenting styles Seems to be disturbed. Instructing a 3 year old does not work rather child tends to get arrogant & restless.

Parental Counselling is necessary at the earliest , by an experienced Psychologist.

Handling techniques needs to be improved.

I hear you and I want you to know that you can turn things around with a little far sight, grit and patience. Here's what might help you: Every time she behaves in a way that is not appropriate, there would have been a certain way you respond to it - either correcting her or pointing out what went wrong or reprimanding her in some way. In other words, a pattern of behavior and response would have formed by now. Be aware of this and make a conscious effort to break this cycle. You are going to be the role model of how to respond in the most respectful and appropriate manner for your child. Be the epitome of all those virtues that you want to see in your child. Remember this - you win this challenge every single time - your child wins it too. So, don't ever, ever give up. Don't give up the nth time she tests your patience. I know you have an 8 month old to take care of. I want you to know that you are capable enough to take care of your daughter too. The very thought of dealing with her may be daunting. But, trust me, it will pay off rich dividends later. Whenever you can, pamper her with all your attention and care irrespective of how she may respond initially - play with her, have fun with her, hold her close and tell her how much you love her. You can do this. Have faith. It's no wonder this is challenging because you are handling the most important and difficult job in the world. Take care.