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I am newly married woman,i feel extremely shyness feel in front of my husband,when my husband comes towards me i feel heart palpitations and anxious, how to do relation with husband i don't have knowledge about relationship please do help in this problem
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Give yourself some time . Things will ease on its own
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Start with emotional closeness like holding hands, hugging before physical intimacy. Physical relation is a gradual, comfortable process. It’s very common in newly wed womens. Those symptoms are due to anxiety.
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Deep breathing when you feel palpitations. Spend more time together
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This is very common and natural to have little hesitation during the initial days. If it is too much it will impact your married relationship , better to have a counselling along with homeopathic medication if required.Consult us through practo we will help you for anxiety with proper counselling and if required then only medications will be given.
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Hello Practo User, use homoeopathic medications for your problem to get Instant and effective results.Its Curable, no need to worry about. Homoeopathic medicines plays Excellent role to treat Such problems in a hollistic way without any side effect.I suggest you to message me your complete history in private chat with all reports & details & Consult Online through Practo. I will guide you for holistic & effective Results with homoeopathy ! Take care !! Best Regards:)
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Dear practo user, having shyness in early days of marriage is a common problem faced by many young women especially in terms of relationship. You should spend more time with your partner,know each other's interests and dislikes and go for outings. Understanding and feelings for each other will gradually develop compatibility between you both. This will take little time but surely you don't need any medicines for this issue.
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Take a Counseling session with us for proper guidance
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These anxieties are common in the beginning. Give yourself quality time and look into the inertest of each other will resolve your issue.
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Hai,
Its a common symptom among newly married women.... For this, have a talk with your partner..... Travel together and understand eachother more.
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Ohh.. don't worry. Homeopathy has an excellent medicines for this. Needs your complete details before giving the medicines. Kindly consult me on nine zero seven nine double zero four zero nine four for proper evaluation and management
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You can consult me online in private. We can discuss and solve the issues.
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No need of medicine.
That is normal
Cooperate with your husband.
Everything becomes normal
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Hello,
Thank you for sharing your concern. First of all, please don’t worry — what you are experiencing is quite common in newly married women, especially when there is shyness, lack of awareness, or emotional hesitation.
As a homeopathic doctor, I would suggest you the following approach:
• Reassurance:
Your symptoms like shyness, palpitations, and anxiety are mainly due to emotional sensitivity and new environment adjustment. This is not a disease, but a natural phase.
• Open Communication:
Try to communicate gently with your husband. Share your feelings honestly. A supportive partner can reduce your fear and help you feel comfortable.
• Take it Slowly:
There is no need to rush into physical intimacy. Build emotional bonding first. Comfort and trust automatically improve physical relations.
• Relaxation Techniques:
Practice deep breathing, meditation, or simple relaxation before meeting your husband. This will reduce palpitations and anxiety.
• Basic Knowledge:
You can gradually educate yourself about marital relationships from reliable and respectful sources. Proper knowledge reduces fear.
• Emotional Support:
Spend quality time together (talking, walking, laughing). This strengthens connection and reduces hesitation.
• Homeopathic Support:
Based on your symptoms (shyness, anxiety, palpitations), remedies like Ignatia, Pulsatilla, or Gelsemium may be helpful — but exact medicine should be selected after detailed case taking.
• When to Consult:
If anxiety is very intense or persists for long, kindly consult privately for proper counselling and individualized treatment.
You are completely normal, just give yourself some time. With proper understanding and emotional comfort, everything will settle naturally.
Take care 🌸
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A homoeopathic treatment will give you best results naturally
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It is not possible to explain it on chat.
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You should consider consulting a specialist in private.
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Kindly consult me on practo online or calling.
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Homoeopathy treatment helps you in this condition
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I can help u consult me online
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U can consult me regarding counselling i will help u
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I am counsellor i can guide you you can consult me on 916702500one or on practo instant consult
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You need a counselling session for this ! so u can visit nearby hospital or any general physician who can guide you personally for this..
Take Care!
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If you are newly married, then it is completely normal. Whatever problem you face, freely talk to your husband, do not feel anxious, you can consult me online, I can do conselling along with the treatment.
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This is normal in newly married women. Your shyness, palpitations, and anxiety are due to nervousness.
• Talk openly with your husband
• Take things slowly, no pressure
• Build emotional comfort first
• Try relaxation (deep breathing)
With time, confidence and comfort will improve.
Further still you feel anxious or shy,then try to connect with me online and i will suggest you something more beneficial for your new relationship... Don't worry it's not a big deal 🤝....
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Hello practo user
Since when you are married? In starting if u feel this it's completely normal. Most of the female feels like that. But don't worry talk with your husband and give tym to yourself and understand why you are feeling like that. If u need personal consultation book online consultation or u can call me on eight nine nine nine one zero eight two eight seven
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It seems to be anxiety which leads to performance pressure during making out.
It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects.
It needs to be addressed in a holistic approach for complete recovery.
You need an expert Psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
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I have been working as a Homeopathic Psychiatrist and Counseling psychologist for the last 17 years of experience. You can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance.
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Dear Madam,
What you are experiencing is completely natural, especially in a newly married phase. Many women feel shy, anxious, or even fearful during the initial days of marriage due to lack of knowledge and emotional adjustment.
The symptoms you mentioned like heart palpitations, nervousness, and anxiety when your husband comes close are due to anticipation and fear of the unknown, not because of any disease.
Why this happens:
Lack of proper knowledge about physical relationship
Cultural conditioning (feeling that intimacy is something to be shy or scared about)
Emotional unfamiliarity with partner
Fear of pain or performance
What you can do:
Take it slowly
Physical intimacy is not something that should be rushed. It is okay to take your own time.
Communicate with your husband
Share your feelings honestly. A supportive partner will understand and help you feel comfortable.
Start with emotional bonding
Spend time talking, laughing, and being close without pressure for physical relation.
Learn gradually
Understanding your own body and intimacy in a healthy way will reduce fear.
Relaxation techniques
Deep breathing or calming yourself before being close can help reduce palpitations.
No pressure
There is no âright timeâ or âperformance expectation.â Comfort and consent are most important.
If anxiety is very severe or continues for long, you can consult a doctor or counselor for guidance
A physical relationship should be based on comfort, trust, and mutual understanding, not fear. With time, your shyness will naturally reduce.if you want you can take consultation i do councelling as well
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Dr Jyoti Kadkol
Health Global Homoeopathy,Vijaynagar,whitefield Bangalore
www.healthglobalclinics
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First of all it's not a problem, it's completely normal to feel shy & hesitate in front of your husband esp. when you're newly married..
Take it slow and let things progress naturally.
Communicate openly with your husband about your feelings.
Practice relaxation techniques like deep breathing, meditation, or yoga.
Build intimacy gradually, starting with small, gentle interactions.
Things will work naturally, gradually..
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Spend time with each other and talk.. everything else will fall in a right way...
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2 yrs exp
Nashik
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Need counselling along with medication to help relieve the anxiety.
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Dr. Mrunalini Vasaikar
Homoeopath
5 yrs exp
Nashik
Hello.
These are common feeling in initial married days.
Try connect with your husband on emotional level first. That will give u confidence.
Spend quality time to know more about common interest and likings.
Once your conversation turns into emotional bond you will be more relaxed to take further steps of your relation.
Any more doubts feel free to connect.
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Dr. Jyoti Sharma
Homoeopath
12 yrs exp
Rajkot
Don’t worry we are doing relationship counselling and advices so contact through Practo we will help you
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Dr. Sunil Tyagi
Homoeopath
10 yrs exp
Delhi
The hesitation, fear and shyness you are feeling is totally normal. It doesn't need any medication it just needs proper talk with your husband.
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develop the friendship bond with your husband and share your feelings. it will decrease the discomfort you are feeling.
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Dr. Neelima Bisai
Homoeopath
3 yrs exp
Bangalore
What you are feeling is completely normal in a newly married women..that is due to anxiety or nervousness..
Build the emotional bond among you both
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Talk openly with him
Express what you are feeling
Every thing will be normal in few days
don't worry about it
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Dr. Surya Pratap Patel
Homoeopath
5 yrs exp
Jaunpur
Aap jo feel kar rahi hain, woh newly married women me kaafi common hai. This is usually due to anxiety, nervousness, and lack of prior experience about marital relationship.
Jab aapke husband aapke paas aate hain to heart palpitations aur anxiety hona zyada tar fear response + emotional stress ki wajah se hota hai. This is not a disease.
Please don’t worry. Yeh condition completely manageable hai. धीरे-धीरे comfort develop hota hai with time, trust, and open communication with your husband.
Aap khud ko force na karein. Take things slowly, and focus on emotional bonding first. Relaxation techniques like deep breathing can also help reduce anxiety.
Agar yeh symptoms continue rehte hain ya daily life ko affect karte hain, then proper consultation is advised. Counseling bhi kaafi helpful hoti hai in such situations.
Take care, you are not alone, and this is completely treatable.
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Dr. Pradnya Bapusaheb
Homeopath
3 yrs exp
Nagpur
It is completely normal to feel shy, anxious, or nervous in the beginning, especially in a newly married life. Many women go through similar feelings, so you are not alone in this.
The palpitations and anxiety you feel are mainly due to nervousness and lack of comfort, not because something is wrong with you. Building a relationship—both emotional and physical—takes time.
Next Steps
Start slowly:
Try to spend more time talking with your husband and building emotional comfort.
Share your feelings honestly with him; a supportive partner will understand and help you feel at ease.
Physical intimacy does not have to happen immediately. Take small steps like holding hands, sitting close, or simple affection.
Relaxation techniques like deep breathing can help reduce anxiety.
Health Tips
Remember, intimacy should always feel safe, comfortable, and mutual. There is no pressure to rush.
If your anxiety feels too strong or continues for a long time, you can consider speaking to a doctor or counselor for guidance.
You will gradually feel more comfortable with time, trust, and understanding
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