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I have been dating a person on and off for close to 2 years now.I have told my mom that I like him.But his short tempered nature and the things he says during a fight are really disturbing.He works towards it.Our maturity levels don't match.I expect a person who is calm and can guide me but most of the time I end up calming him down.I'm in really dilemma.My mind n heart don't seem to sync.
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You have told your mom that you like this person, but your concern is his short tempered nature. His short tempered nature is making you feel stressed and upset. You can have a discussion with him and tell him that his short tempered nature is bothering you. You can tell him that you have informed your mom and you are serious about the relationship. It is important to know what is causing him to feel angry. To feel better consult a psychologist and explain about your relationship with him. Consult a psychologist for relationship counselling. Don’t worry counseling sessions will help you.
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Contact me for counseling session. Along with counseling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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Ms. Purvi Chottai
Psychologist
8 yrs exp
Hyderabad
Communication is the key.
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Get in touch with a therapist for couples counselling to make your relationship more stable.
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Individual counselling can also help you gain more clarity into your relationship and your role/expectations from it!
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
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13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... Your heart and mind are perfectly in sync, what you are experiencing is a conflict that is arising from what you want him to be and what he is. You cannot change anyone, keep that in mind. You can only try to find someone who is closest to what you desire in your partner. But again a relationship, especially a marital one, stretches for 40-50 years time, if it lasts. And we are dynamic beings. A person may completely change in a period of 5-10 years. Also, there are not n number of people waiting in line for anyone. So be wise and be grounded while making long-term decisions.
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Interpersonal Relationship Counselling is required.
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