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I am in a relationship for the last one year. Initially everything was fine but as time is passing I am having concerns. I feel like my girlfriend is a little childish and is not sincere about her life.I had always imagine my girlfriend to be the one with whom I could discuss on every topic. But with her the case is entirely different. We don't have product to discussions very often. I think she lakes fundamentals maybe because she had her first relationship when she was in her 11th class. And her boyfriend was very productive so she will not grow as much as she was supposed to. Now I have concerns that I will not be able to discover myself with her due to these issues. Also we have caste difference which makes me think that she has gotten everything on her hand without putting much efforts. I am 25 and I want to take a decision but I am confused because this is first time for me and I don't know if she is the one.
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Your feelings seems to be genuine.. What comes across as exciting initially can later make you see things in perspective u didn't see before.. It could be with time you realized these basic differences.. But you need to make up your mind about what's more important.. We can discuss this in detail cause it's matter of love it takes time.
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I sense your confusion over here... and if you are to resolve it....
Firstly,
What do you mean about your growth in this current relationship that you are in?
What is that you are looking for in a realtionship and how is this current one serving ?
What would make you think the next girl tou meet she is the one for you ?
Doea caste holds importance to you or are you ready jump the barrier?
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try answering the above questions to achive clarity .
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see how you feel and contribute in the relationship you are in currently and of you think you have an idea of perfect relationship then i must say prefection is subjective to people. to find out about is this girl the right one for check with your feelings and see how strongly do you feel about her or what made you fall for her....
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