Dear Sir / Mam ,
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Please note that my daughter is 3 yrs and 5 months old. She is in Nursery right now.
Today it was her first exam and she did 50% work and then left the paper saying that she does not wish to write more and started playing.
Seeing this her school principal said to me that she is extra pampered and it's all my fault that the child is not taking her classes seriously.
Please advice what should I do ?
I am very tensed as well as confused and I am continuously blaming myself
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Hi. It may be due to inattention and escape tendencies. Through playing teach her educational skills.
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I think your principal needs to correct her perception.
Mood swings, like and dislikes are very common at this age.
You can make the assignment more creative or add few interesting features so that your child remains tempted and motivated to complete the same.
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It is natural for a 3 year old child to get distracted or not comply with the teacher or lose interest and get distracted. Children that age will find it difficult to pay attention for long durations. I don't believe that the love and attention she receives from her parents is related to her ability to focus and complete her exam. There are multiple factors involved. The best thing you can do is to speak with her and make her understand the importance of examinations and completing work. Appreciate her for the 50 % that she did complete. Children perform extremely well when appreciation and rewards are used in the right manner.
I understand this must be stressful and worrying for you. Take it one step at a time. Appreciate and celebrate the small achievements you and your child have experienced together. No child is perfect and no parent is either. You can also speak with a psychologist who can work on attention and concentration as well as sitting tolerance and compliance.
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Generally children want to play more in this age group. This is normal, this is not her fault. Don't force her. You can find a another nursery school that will be better for her. Try to find her learning style. Generally in this age, no need exam, marks.... They will learn through play based method.
Hi... Please find a better nursery school for your child. She is normal as per her age and it is the adults (parents/teachers) job to motivate her to learn skills (reading, writing, talking, walking, etc.) that are useful.
But there is no hurry, every kid is unique and they learn things at their own pace. You can't rush through learning, it doesn't work that way. You can only motivate her by modelling the desired behaviour.
For example, if you want her to read/write, start reading/writing something genuinely and regularly. You don't even need to tell her to do the same. Just keep doing it regularly and she will eventually pick it up from you considering it a norm.
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