My husband going through lot of stress these days.
We are married since 7 years and last 2 years he kept on saying he doesn't want kids and i want kids. This has created lot of differences in our relationship and ultimately there is no intimacy left among us. Its been more than 2 years we havent done sex. He keeps saying he doesnt feel attracted to me anymore.
Oncer is arrange marriage and we had good relation for initial years. But talking about kids have always stressed him. He likes me and he doesnt want to see me unhappy.
He has no reasons for not having kids, only thing he says he doesn't want any responsibility. He is not a very outgoing person or a party person. He doesn't smoke or drink. He likes spending time with family. But recent days he says he doesn't feel like doing anything. He doesn't want to do anything extra apart from office and playing video games. He is playing too much of video games and that is how he is fighting with depression. Whom should i consult?
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Hi,I think, as couples u both require , marriage counselling . As even you are not able to find out the reason for your misunderstanding and hoping to get alright by itself is pointless.
May be he really has so easy issues regarding ur sexual life OR there could be some fear or inhibitions due to which he is isolating himself.
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Next Steps
It is always better to consult a Marriage Counsellor in your city personally and share your personal feeling GSM and issues with them.
You both will definitely get some clarity and realisations out of the session.
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Hi,
I believe your has depression features and irrational belief about the responsibility or having kid.
Kindly take take to an psychologist or counselor first for assessment and counselling.
Assure him that consulting psychologist is not an sign of weakness or mental illness.
Talking session can bring an difference in him.
Next Steps
proceed with family discussion( let your parents and their parents) and then move to counselling from expert.
Health Tips
1.show is unconditional love and affection.
2. Can ask his friends to talk with him
3. find what is triggering him not to have kid.
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