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Past problems
I'm dating this guy since a year and a half. We love each other and we're perfect for each other. But recently he got to know that I've been with a few guys in the past and he read my old chats with an another guy when we had just started dating. He felt cheated. And I apologized for everything. I stopped talking to that guy after I realized that it's not right. But my bf is not able to get over it. I've been trying hard to tell him in every possible way that I want him in my life. he has lost all the confidence and trust on me. I don't know what to do. He keeps on asking same questions, sometimes offensive. And it hurts a lot. He said mean things to me which I'm completely ok with. I just want him to get over it. He loves me I know. He wants me but talking to me keep on reminding him those things which he's not supposed to. It was a past. I'm over it. Help me!
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Dr. Priyadarshani Jain
Psychiatrist
19 yrs exp
Mumbai
Hi, a successful relationship requires undying commitment, honesty and selfless love at the centre of it all. Yes whatever has happened is the past. And everyone has one. Your boyfriend has to understand it. Trust takes time to build up, how much time depends from person to person. Relax first. Introspect the entire u, him and the situation. Understand what he is going through.
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And then kindly meet a psychiatrist or a couple counsellor for conflict resolution.
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Remember every person has different coping mechanisms in life crises and situations. You need to be patient with him. Kindly get expert help.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
I feel both of you if you sit and talk about it might resolve it.
If it persists, I would rather both of you to meet a neutral person lime a psychological counsellor and resolve this issue at the earliest.
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Dr. Udayan Bhaumik
Psychiatrist
8 yrs exp
Kolkata
Maybe I don't sound like a counsellor here, but if he is not able to get over it with your best efforts, he probably never will and hence it's better to forget him.That takes time but hopefully you will be able to con
me to terms with it soon.Let me know if you need any help here.
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