You need to accept other person perspective at the same time respecting you feelings..you definetly need counseling to resolve the inner conflicts for better mental health. You have taken first step towards it which is half the battle won.
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You want people to be interested in you and you want to make friends. You want to mingle with people and have good conversations. A psychologist will guide you on how to make people become interested in you.
There are few things you should keep in mind while approaching people like
your approach should not be purpose driven all the time,you should readily help people if you can,you should be kind and most importantly non judgemental.
Allow people to be the way they are, try to be a good listener.rest you cannot force people to be your friends but if you acquire these habits you as a person will grow and might others want to be your friends.
Good luck
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If your intentions are good for being friend , I think you should learn NLP to improve your communications skills, and also work on your personal grooming . Friendship is not built or it doesnt happen in few minutes, its a process which happens over the period of time when you understand a person, irrespective of gender.
Hi, thanks for sharing. I understand your concern. It can be hard to make friends as an adult.
You may want to try:
1. Talking to people who are interested in the same activities as you are
2. Spending more time outdoors (with COVID-19 protocols) than indoors
3. Find interest groups on Facebook
4. Spend more time where people usually come together (example- cafe/ playground/ library)
5. Try to help someone in need
6. Before you reach out to another person for friendship, ask yourself if YOU like them or can feel connected to them- because that is equally important
7. Ask trusted adults for their opinion (people who know you well or have spent time with you would be more aware of why others are not able to become friends with you)
8. Try to be your own friend (example- journal your inner feelings/ read books or watch movies/ go for walks/ try to create a new idea or project/ spend time with pets or street animals/ volunteer at an NGO)
9. Ask yourself what kind of people do you want to be friends with- what are your likes and dislikes
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If you are looking for counselling, please feel free to contact me.
Hope this helps, take good care.
Every individual may have different reasons for not being able to make friends. Psychologist consultation can help identify those and can guide you to improve your social skills.
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