Need counseling. Me to get out of this.

I lost my job 3 months back and currently serving notice period. I used to think that job is the only positive thing in my life. I feel nothing is going right.My parents are looking for groom for me.But most of them are rejecting me due to looks and dowry I believe.My weight have increased 5 kgs within 1 month.My dad is bed ridden.I am a wishful thinker.I dream a lot but do nothing to achieve it.I don't feel passionate towards anything.I dream of doing good things.But dont do at all. The current major problem is to secure a job.For that I need to prepare.But I am not doing that.Instead I am worrying and thinking a lot and fear a lot.Sometimes I ignore that I am not having job.Then at times when I am feeling very much worried,I start with my day dreaming,thinking that I have secured good job,I am married to one perfect guy who loves me a lot.I want to get out of this and concentrate and get  job,lose weight and stop this day dreaming.Please help me to get out of this.