Dear Doctor,
This is wrt my 4.6 yr old son who is having huge problem obeying to us. Be it studies, getting up, sleeping, food, play, Infact all day n night. He is a sharp boy but with weird behavior of not listening to us. This forces us to go very strict on him which we regret at the end of the day. But next say again he does the same. We r worried abt his growing up now n need a solution.
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Me, my wife, my son, my 1.5 yr old daughter n my mother.
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Viral S
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Your child is facing behaviour problem.You as a parent n your wife needs to take session to develop good parenting skills which will help to curb this issues
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Behind our every behavior has a positive intention, if he get attention of family members from his behavior it's positive for him. Focus and rewarded ( hug, kiss, etc) him on his other positive behavior, and repeat it on daily basis.
Hi... Lots of parents/childrens are facing similar issues in the Pandemic/Lockdown situation where they are spending most of the time confined to their home and infact confined to their respective rooms/beds/chairs etc.
Your kid is no different and he is facing similar issues of dealing with this change. Childrens express their emotions in terms of tantrums or disobey (as you have put it).
Also, such response patterns are more acquired than innate. Do you and your wife "obey" orders of elders in the family and respect each other's as well? If yes, then your kids are more likely to follow it as a norm, otherwise not.
Do you respect your kids needs, wants, expectations in terms of things, likes/dislikes, warmth/love, self-respect. If yes, he is more likely to respect yours as a natural instinct to reciprocate what he receives.
Every kid/person is unique, so never compare him/her with any other kid/person. Living in the same household, receiving the same parenting/family environment, different kids may acquire completely different personalities, thinking, and behavioural patterns based on the difference of their birth orders, modelling, individual differences, etc.
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