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I had been suffering a lot since my childhood.i received basic things food clothing and shelter from my parents but no love and mental support.They supported me sometimes bit never supported me whenever i was in mental pain.also I have been bullied a lot in my school,college and also in job to extent that I had to leave my job .I am also suffering from multiple health issues.i am 34 right now.i can't describe everything in detail as it would require very detailed description. To conclude at present I m under excessive mental pain due to excessive wrong done to me in past whether by parents,sibling or outside world.i m so fed up right now that I don't want to live anymore as I had suffered to extreme and still no soln.i m jobless too.i had already been to multiple psychiatrist and psychologist but no benefit.now no soln.i have been hurted very badly by this world .I have fought nad suffered a lot since childhood .now I m tired and just want to end my life.
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Consultation with me is suggested
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Kindly reach out for sessions
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I can sense how much pain you’ve carried, and it’s understandable to feel exhausted after so many hardships. Sharing this openly shows strength and your experiences matter. Please hold on to the thought that your future is not fixed; there are paths forward that can bring relief and hope..
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Youâve been fighting alone for a very long time â and the fact that you reached out today, even just to write this, tells me thereâs still a part of you looking for a reason to stay. I see that.
What youâre describing isnât weakness. Itâs what happens when someone carries too much pain for too long without real support.
Youâve tried psychiatrists and psychologists before and felt let down â thatâs important, and I donât want to just be another name on that list. What Iâd offer you is a space where we actually slow down and understand your story, not just your symptoms.
You deserve that. Please reach out for a session â Iâd like to be someone who actually helps.
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I'm truly sorry you're feeling this way. Your pain is deep, and you've endured so much. Please remember you're not alone, and help is available. Reach out to a mental health professional, trusted friend, or family member to share your feelings. Your life matters, and there is support to help you through this difficult time.
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It seems to be post traumatic psychological changes leading to severe depression. It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects.
It needs to be addressed in a holistic approach for complete recovery.
Your story is important to us. You need a patient listener.
You need an expert psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
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I have been working as a Homeopathic Psychiatrist and Counseling psychologist for the last 17 years of experience. You can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance.
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I understand how deeply overwhelming this has been for you, dealing with everything and feeling completely drained after trying to get help so many times.
When pain stretches across years like this, it can start to feel endless and unfair, like you’ve been carrying a weight with no relief. Feeling tired and wanting an escape from that intensity reflects how much you’ve endured.
Right now, the goal isn’t to solve your whole life, it is to get you through this safely.
If possible, try to stay around other people or in a place where you feel even slightly less alone. Intense thoughts like this can rise and fall, and giving yourself even a little buffer of safety can help them pass without turning into action.
It may not feel like it, but the fact that you’ve kept going through all of this shows there is still a part of you that wants things to be different.
Instead of looking for a full solution, focus on one small step at a time like getting through the next hour, the next activity, the next breath.
Consult , because sometimes healing after long-term hurt requires a different approach or pace, to help you recover effectively positively.
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• Try slow breathing: inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 4, exhale for 6–8, repeat for a few minutes to calm the body.
• Engage your body gently—like a short walk, stretching, or even splashing cold water on your face to interrupt the emotional surge.
• Ground yourself using your senses: name 5 things you can see, 4 you can feel, 3 you can hear, 2 you can smell, 1 you can taste.
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Connect with psychologist to resolve inner conflict
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When pain builds over years it can feel overwhelming but things can still change with the right support. Please consider reaching out to a mental health professional or someone you trust right now
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Hi, Consult a psychiatrist
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You’ve carried years of emotional neglect, bullying, repeated hurt, health struggles, and feeling unsupported, so it makes sense that you feel exhausted and hopeless right now. When pain builds for this long, the mind starts saying there is no solution, but that feeling is a sign of overwhelm, not proof that your life is finished. Right now your priority is safety, not solving your whole past tonight. Please do not stay alone with these thoughts. Remove anything you could use to harm yourself, sit near a trusted person, and tell someone clearly that you are struggling.
Even if past treatment disappointed you, it does not mean help cannot work with the right fit and steady plan. You likely need trauma-informed therapy plus psychiatric review, not to fight this alone anymore. For tonight, focus only on the next few hours: breathe slowly, sip water, keep lights on, and speak to one supportive person. If you feel at risk of acting on these thoughts, go immediately to the nearest emergency room or call your local emergency services/crisis helpline. Take therapy. You can connect with me on nine two six six seven two six zero six five
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Ms. Rajul Nirmalkumar
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1 yrs exp
Chennai
Firstly, I appreciate you for taking your first step towards your taking care if your mental health. There is a lot you’ve been dealing with. In my opinion, the struggles are not just about job or life stressors, but seem to be deeply rooted in your early experiences of your childhood. What I can see could be extension of these long - standing patterns which are unprocessed, stored in your body.
I believe the focus should be helping you build a stable sense of self, process unresolved emotional experiences and develop healthier ways to cope with stress and relationships.
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Please consult a clinical psychologist
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I see creating a safe consistent therapeutic safe can help you gradually understand and shift these patterns.
All the best
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Mr. Sandeep Kumar
Psychologist
15 yrs exp
Chandigarh
Dear concerned, You’ve carried so much pain for so long—you don’t have to go through this alone, please hold on and reach out for support, your life still matters deeply.
Regards
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... Our mind has a capacity to make us feel down to the bottom and to fly up in the air. What happened in the past is not happening now but our mind keep replaying it till it burns our patience to tolerate it anymore. Remember, this constant awareness of your past is making you suffer more in the present moment. Once you are able to understand and disconnect from what has happened and what is happening now, you can realize that our existence is beyond our thoughts and emotions attached to certain moments or events. We exist beyond our constant efforts to keep ourselves happy or sane. Try taking a break from the routine and visit a natural place where you can connect beyond your mind, thoughts, and the past. Therapy works when you are willing to accept that you can change your life and it is 100% your responsibility. Finding who spoiled it, is good but beyond a point it becomes like a cyclic loop where you feel same thoughts and emotions again and again. To move forward you need to break this cycle of blame to awareness and willingness to change. If ending life was a solution, this civilization would not have survived from thousands of years.
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Consult a Psychologist.
Interpersonal Guidance and Counselling using Existentialist Approach is required.
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Ms. Jesin John
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Hyderabad
Connect with a mental health professional.
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