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Mother and daughter relationship
Hi Im 24. I lost my dad in 2013. We are 3 n family.My sis went to work in the USA in '14. She wasn't in a good phase n hr life. We in our family don't talk openly abt feelings. I did not receive motherly care from mom anytime. I love my dad so much. I wouldn't say my childhood was abusive. But i remm my mom like who uses to beat me and pinch me more than talking well & tc of me. I hated her. I guess i know tat she loves me but she dosnt show it.
I was in love since 2016. In '18 I spoke to my mom abt it & she hs been refusing since then. In nov '19 the issue becam serious. Guy's parents wanted a decision and i wanted my mom to just say yes becus i didn't wanna lose another person from my life. My cousin tried to convince my mom,ther was few talks abt mom's life. She said she didnt plan and i was unexpected and dint want me. In tamil, 'vendam nu kuda yosichom, ana idhu gift nu vittutom'
After few problms,I broke up.
Even if she ws angry on me. She shouldn't have said it right? It haunts.
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Heated arguments,critical comments can be hurtful and while growing up if you witness some sort of physical or verbal abuse , it shapes our personalities.
If you wish to hold on to these grudges, it may disturb you more and eventually lead to serious mental health issues
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you can speak to a psychologist, therapy will help you to let go and work on emotions.
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You are suffering due to bereavement and difficult relationship with mother. It is important to develop self worth, be able to communicate yourself with relationships and move on to create a happy life for yourself.
Counseling and Homoeopathy can help.
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Dr. Avashesh Gupta
Psychiatrist
24 yrs exp
Kanpur
This all is due to feeling, once you know how do we feel or how feeling is generated, you can easily get rid of this
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you need CBT
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Mr. Sidharth Mishra
Psychotherapist
6 yrs exp
Bhubaneswar
First don't worry
Then follow these
1. 90 percent of children are unexpected does not mean that parents don't care.
2. Second talk to a professional now I mean now before this really causes trouble.
3. Be sure of yourself you are worth it
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contact me
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