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Mental Torcher
I am suffering from mental torcher. Actually my boyfriend is so so possessive or can say he doubts me alot but he himself knows that i am very much loyal to him but i don't know he is so much doubtful person.
He even beats me and abuses me alot.
He doesn't allow me to talk to anyboy.
I love him alot but now i dont wanna live with him, i dont know how to get rid of h8m because now he has become so aggressive. He wants me at any condition.
I can't understand what should i do right now!!!
He also loves me alot, infact he loves me top of the world. But his behavior towards me is so rude and bad. He is too short tempered.
He is not going to change himself. He'll be like this only.
And he is spoiling my life but still i can't leave him i don't know why??
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The narrations doesnt reflect its a relationship by choice anymore,its more of an imposed relation. This might lead to further mental disturbances on your part.
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Better take the help of a psychologist for support therapy and guidance, as to how can you handle this relationship.
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Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. Any relationship will be successful and long Lasting only when there is trust, open communication and give&take among partners. If any of these is shaken, then it takes a major efforts to regain the confidence.
In your cases, you need to give a try and openly speak to him about your concern and expectation. If you can't do by yourself , then take a counseling help to get yourself ready to decide what you want. Then call him also for a counseling session to decide what's best for both of you considering a long term relationship. All best.
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Ms. Shraddha Sankulkar
Psychotherapist
29 yrs exp
Mumbai
Hello, From the above brief, its clear that you are suffering from low self-esteem, to begin with. The fact that you are being abused, but still defining that 'he loves me' hints that you may also have some inferiority complex (is it the weight?) within you to allow yourself to be victimized. I sense that both you and him have some emotional back log (emotional trauma from the past) due to which you & him both are not able to identify and define healthy emotional bonding and parameters of love. I suggest you first start working on empowering your self-esteem (self-worth) where you get started in feeling good about your self. If you can't do it yourself then seek the help of a psychological counselor, who will help you see & build the good in you and thereby help you emotionally empower yourself. Once your self-esteem upscales, then and only then you will gain the strength to assert your bf to back off and stop emotionally bullying you. Best Wishes, Stay Positive!
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Upscale your self-worth and seek psychological counseling at the earliest
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