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I am completely lost with my husband behaviour. He keeps everything secret from me and when I try to find out or he get insecure that I may involve family he scares me with anger, loud voice and breaking of things. It's not new. From last 10yrs of marriage he has yelled and argued almost 3 times on me. Everytime the same excuse the lady is in big trouble I am helping her, she is just a friend , there is some problem with me and starts abusing me for what I have not done. He is completely normal if I do as he says , the sooner I raise my voice this happens.. it broke me a lot and i can't go back to my family as my mother is all alone. He know I have no father to support me. Please help
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A person gets angry when he doesn't feel in control of the situation. Sometimes anger is a tool used to avoid uncomfortable questions and conversations.
A detailed assessment needs to be planned. Your husband's personality assessment, your relationship dynamics.
All these and more needs to be assessed.
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consult a psychiatrist to plan a detailed assessment
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take care of your own health and don't blame your self
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Hello. Looks like there's a huge communication gap between you two and definitely too much IP issues. Also, there's lot of confidence issues in you as well.
Marital counseling and therapy will be required for you two.
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in this case,both of you will be needing therapy.not just you or your husband,but both of you.
consult a psychiatrist/therapist for the same.
detailed history has to be taken from both the sides.
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you can consult me regarding the same
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Dr. Sravan Vangala Reddy
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Meet near by Psychiatrisit
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Dr. Darshan Patel
Addiction Psychiatrist
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Ahmedabad
Require some history...and also require interpersonal therapy..plz come online
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