Marrital problem. Me also pls help me!

I m facing many problems in my life from last 9 years n m married from last 4 years i was hoping only one thing that i should get loving n understanding husband wich i didnt got evryday m hoping from him something good n i didn't get den my mind gets upset evry day n i gets into angr n in deportation m not getting that much love n affection from him which i want n all day m hoping d same thing from him n he didn't know how to keep women happy he sahres everything with his friends n talks much with him whenevr he comes home he don't share anything with me even we don't have physical relations much he lies to me every day about some topics all d time he searches for his happiness only he sleeps in other room becz pf hia back pain n snoring whnevr hes at home either hes in his phn or he used to go out for dinner or for movie he's least interested for personal n quality time with me hes like women don't have brains n he don't have value for womens even for me also pls help me