My age is 34 .i gonna marry to a girl .i naver sex ever. Sometimes i thinks i lost a lot of years. Is it common marrige in this age . Actully due to my responcbilty to my family and my sister marrige was barrior of my marrige now everything setteld . I m govt employee and have successful academic life . But i feel guilty . I feel my parents done bad for my life. And now this lockdown ehat should i do
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Your leading a normal life with govt job finished your responsibilities which have to be done by you .Bur your having negative thinking,feelings of guilty,and hopelessness which may be a part of depression which are effecting your quality of life.It's absolutely normal to marry at this age .
Next Steps
consult a psychiatrist to answer your queries before marriage and to treat depression accordingly if necessary.
✓ 32 years is not so old of an age. You should get rid of these regrets and guilt.
✓Before moving directly to any treatment follow the advice as given below.
✓ Consult online on practo for the detailed Evaluation and Formal assessment.
✓You may suffer from exaggerated masturbation guilt. Around 90% males start masturbation before the age of 14. Rest 8-9 % start after age 14. Virtually every man masturbates. It is a normal male sexual behavior. But excess of everything is bad, there is no problem if masturbation is done in moderation.
✓We may need reports of following tests to rule out Physical causes of Erectile dysfunction & Pre-mature ejaculation.
1. CBC
2. T3, T4, TSH
3. HbA1c
4. Serum Testosterone
5. Serum Prolactin
✓To rule out Psychological causes, Answer Following Questions
1. How is your mood?
2. How are your energy levels?
3. How is your appetite?
4. Do you have any sleep disturbances or do you oversleep?
5. Any past history of anxiety or Depression?
6. Any family members suffering from anxiety or Depression?
✓Please respond to above questions and send me reports to enable me to make a complete assessment of your condition and advise treatment accordingly. Depression can cause ED, PME and Masturbation Guilt/Compulsive Masturbation.
✓All that you may require is a proper consultation and treatment about your sexual problems. (ED - erectile dysfunction; PME - premature ejaculation)
Dr Rahul Kansal
MBBS (AIIMS New Delhi),
MD, CE (UCLA, USA)
Neuro-psychiatrist
Sexologist & De-addiction Expert
Kansal Hospital : 120/238, Sector 12, Aggarwal Farm, Mansarovar, Jaipur.
Regarding follow up:
Follow up with Reports and answer to needed medical enquiry.
Next Steps
Go ahead with the marriage if you like the girl and she likes you back.
In modern world it is normal for a professional to get married at 34 or even beyond that
It is very easy to Blaim circumstances and parents for ones own problem
If we blaim other for our problems they don’t get solved
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