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Marriage Problems ( 2.5 years)
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I'm writing this out of sheer desperation and not knowing what to do or whom to talk too. Im married since 2.5 years and me and my wife have literally no sex life. We fought a lot. Our way of upbringing are very different. Her family is very scared about everything and mines exact opposite. We fight a lot on multiple things be it daily chores or be it likes or dislikes. We met for 3 months before marriage happened. Fights have gone to an extent where both are harming each other physically. The anger has gone beyond boundaries. We both have tried multiple times to not to feel angry with each other but it just doesn't work. Eg - if she has office commitment, I have the same..and if we ask for tiffin service she doesn't want that, ordering for food the answer is no and I never ask her to make food for me as she gets tired. But she herself makes, does office work and then cribs and gets angry, bangs the office keyboard and what not and blames me for it. Don't know what needs to be done
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Hi. Try to live independently in an interdependent relationship. Try to see each other in the altered position and see the stand point. Remember the purpose of this marriage
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Aim of marriage to be clear for both
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take time
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Couple Counseling will be very helpful to know each other’s flaws and work upon it. I have been handling such cases with high success rate. I am an online counselor and an internationally certified NLP practitioner. You can connect with me for further details or visit my Facebook page to know about my work.
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Congratulate yourself you have taken the first step,usually people shy away and then the life becomes a well learnt drudgery. Also appreciate your concern about your wife being tired.Now what is to be done .With your account it seems you have very different value systems and the communication pattern is faulty or probably non existant,all this is building up your frustration against each other.
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Seek couple therapy immediately, you may see the therapist individually initially and then together.
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look out for common interests ,make a list of the household chores that get piled up ,start working from there.
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Please seek a professional support..
go for online relationship counselling and can visit any near by center
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Both of should visit a clinical psychologist to sort out your problems.
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consult a clinical psychologist
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... Both of you need to take Marital Counselling. I know there is lot of inhibitions surrounding it but that is the only way out.
Even in developed countries there is no other solution to this kind of issue. In some countries Marital/Family/Individual Counselling is part of judicial process in Marital/Family Conflicts cases.
If both of you are not ready to take Marital Counselling. At least start taking Counselling/Psychotherapy separately. It will help you deal with your condition better.
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Take Marital Counselling or Individual Counselling from a Psychologist.
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To Seek my Services Online you can Google me or visit my Website (https://gunjanmaithil.wixsite.com/therapy). Use the number mentioned on the website to book online sessions.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Please seek a professional support..
They Will be able to hear from both of you from a neutral perspective and could guide you appropriately..
It is resolvable..
Consult a psychological Counselor for a Marriage Counselling..
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For a detailed discussion and understanding you can reach me by using the link given below :-
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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Dr. Sanya Bhojwani (PhD)
Counselling Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Bhopal
You need to get through a couple therapy session if she agrees to. Marriage is a long term commitment and needs to be addressed if its harming your peace and sanity.
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kindly consult me@ practo. Would be happy to help
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