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Doctor i was married in 2014. My husband and I were leading a decent life. I was a little unhappy with my husband because he was not sexually compatible. He never spoke to me openly regarding sexual matters. We fought various times due to this reason. But gradually i got adjusted myself and everything went well. Then in 2018 a married man named Atul came in my life He lured me with all those things which i expected from my husband. We came into a relationship and were physically bonded. He lured me to marry me he came to my house and told my husband that we loved eachother. After a lot of heartbreaks i applied for mutual divorce with my husband and its yet going on final date is on 8 July. Atul also applied for divorce from his wife. We both had covid this 20th april and after that now he is saying to me that he cant live without his previous life. He says his wife was better than me and he can't forget her. my life is ruined and I am running through a divorce. I am depresed. pls help
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Dear,
You just managed to come out of a sexually unsatisfying marriage but it helped you know yourself better as to what you want and what you did not get.
I wonder whether you ever expressed what you wanted to your husband. If not try asking him to forgive you and tell him what you want in this marriage and why it all fell out of place and that you want to try to work it out this time.
Remember the marriage is not over yet and you still might have a chance to get back with your husband, if he agrees.
With Regards,
Dr.Nisha James
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You might need a step by step guidance, since it is going to be difficult. I suggest you speak to a counselling psychologist to help you sort out this problem.
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Hi. Cancel divorce process. Go back to him...ask for forgiveness..be strong.
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Hi at present your in a situation neither this side nor that side to go. Once decided & applied uncertainty happened. To gain insight & to bring solution within yourself. I suggest you to take counseling sessions.
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Hi, I understand you are upset about being stuck in a situation where you are not getting the love and affection you want and expect from your boyfriend. I understand you are upset about your personal life where you are coping with a divorce and you are also coping with your boyfriend not giving you the love and affection you want and you are coping with COVID as well. I understand it is a lot to handle. You want to reach out to someone who understands what you are going through. You can consult a psychologist with whom you can express your thoughts, feelings, and emotions. You will feel lighter when you express your feelings with a psychologist.
To feel better It is important to remember that you are a caring person.
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Consult a psychologist online.
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I can understand that you are going through a lot in your personal life and have found yourself in an impossible situation while being unable to find a way out. You feel abandoned and betrayed by your boyfriend because he has gone back on his word and wants to repair things with his wife while you are in the final stages of separation from your husband.
Divorce in itself can bring out many emotional issues to the surface, add to that the stres of your boyfriend’s stand and covid, you are going through a lot. These issues can be explored in therapy and if you are considering reconciliation with your husband, you can even go in for marital therapy.
A therapist can help you resolve and overcome your personal issues, along with the issues you’re having in your mare.
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Book a session with a psychologist to explore your issues.
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Dr. Balbir Singh (PhD)
Psychologist
34 yrs exp
Delhi
I can understand well about ur present situation. At this moment u need a good counsellor/therapist. To know more call.
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Ms. Ritika Matta
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8 yrs exp
Hyderabad
Hi, you can contact me for an online appointment and we can explore this narrative together
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Yes, it is unfortunate..
Did your family and his family spoke to each other and met each other or not..
If possible, take your family's support and approach his family and try to convince them..
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For more details and clarity you can connect with me by using the link given below :-
https://prac.to/hema-sampath-psychologist-dir
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