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Marital stress
I am married (4yrs). My husband is elder son in family and is taking care of almost everyone after my father in-law passed away. Since marriage m seeming everyone disrespecting/criticizing my husband for not doing this n that. No one stands for him, even he himself. I am not able to take it anymore. It is impacting my mental balance. I starts shivering n feel restless when anybody talks to my husband like this. Even younger one in family abused him n me also. Even cursed my then 11month girl. If u confront them they say forgot about that, no one meant that. I am also targeted for not been good bahu. I feel helpless for my husband. He is not taking any stand for himself. In frustration he even tried hurting himself, even jumping off our building. I also started feeling good for nothing.
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Your husband needs to see the psychiatrist asap since he tried to commit suicide. You can tell him that you love him and have faith in his abilities. Financial Success is not the only way to be successful. However, speak with his family only about your opinion about him and his abilities. They might not agree with you though. Look for a win win way out of the conflict situation.
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Please see a counselling psychologist for an evaluation and further course of action. Maybe he could add some skills to his learning which could put him on the path of financial success too.
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Work towards building his and your self esteem and confidence.
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Ms. Suruchi Kothari
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You can help your husband only if he chooses too. Talking on behalf of your husband will only ruin your relationships with other family members. It’s important to speak for yourself and your child.
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If your husband is suicidal kindly seek professional help
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You can’t help anyone until he/she chooses to allow you to do so
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