Thank you Dr Mohit Shah (Mumbai) for your consultation. The problem is deeper since his parents openly support him and hide my husband's mistakes of beating me and excessively drinking. According to his parents and him I provoke him. But I fail to understand if I provoke him then why does he still want to live with me. This shows that all that he says about me that I beat him , I provoke him are all lies. But he doesn't accept his mistakes plus his parents cover up for all his mistakes and this has left me with no other option but to separate. What is the point living with a man who beats me brutally and not realising that drinking excessively has taken a serious role on his health. I was married to this man for past 2 years since 2014. I gave my best to make it work. But I don't think sitting silent and getting beaten is what I deserved. Ours was a love marriage but I wasn't aware that he would become so aggressive after marriage. He used to drink whiskey very frequently even at home.
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Hi there I understand your concern...try to find out the problem they have and try to discuss with them and advice them to resolve any kind of long-standing problem....take a vacation, and spend some time together, a new environment sometimes beneficial to couples...do at least few of the daily activity together like daily morning jogging or brisk walking, meditation, if possible join some hobby classes to spend some quality time...Consult nearest psychiatrist for counseling with your husband they will do the needful.
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