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Hello, Here is our current scenarios for marital life. Please guide us. Our issues - Problem 1 : We have been married for a year now but our marriage is not yet consummated. We were okay with it initially because we are very good friends but we didn't focus much on it. We use to have oral sex together and bring out orgasms.. Then I tried to have physical intercourse one day, but I couldn't do it. We both were ready but without knowing her legs used to push me away when I tried to insert my penis....She was happy to do physical intercourse but may be because of internal fear her legs used to block me..... Then may be the reason she is little fat ( and i was using protection) I couldn't insert my penis into her vagina yet all...I found there is no space and it can't go inside. We tried for three to four time, same result. Problem 2 : Both of us have less sexual drive and when my penis might be sensitive enough to ejaculate orgasms the moment my partner tried to interact.
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Take proper knowledge and couple counseling and medication work better than only medication alone will guide you through online private chat
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To over come this issue consut Sexperts don't shy these kind of problems can't be resolved through messages details discussion required to find out reason get treated and enjoy the Sex and future problems
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Hi, The desire has ideally gone down as you guys are not able to satisfy yourself and each other. For problem 1 - it’s better that you go and consult a gynaecologist for your partner. As there is a possibility she must be having issues of vaginismus. For Problem 2 - it seems you have started developing symptoms of premature ejaculation. Let me explain you about your issue in brief - The issue as described by you above is termed as premature ejaculation. There is a possibility that the tip of your penis might have become hyper sensitive. Premature ejaculation (PE) is when ejaculation happens sooner than a man or his partner would like during sex. PE is also known as rapid ejaculation, premature climax or early ejaculation. PE might not be a cause for worry. It can be frustrating if it makes sex less enjoyable and impacts relationships. If it happens often and causes problems. However this issue is not a major cause to worry as much as there are medications and treatment available for the same. If you genuinely interested in getting your issue resolved then you can contact me directly through google on my website or contact me through Practo. Would be happy to help you. You can contact me directly through my website for online or in person consultation - https://www.drfayyazsexologyclinic.com
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Contact through online
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Take proper counseling.. To enjoy sexual activity .. To enjoy happy married life
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There can be many reasons for the problem.. Couple counseling therapy is needed.. Your problem of premature ejaculation is most common sexual problem in all ages of men. Fortunately it has high recovery rate through ayurvedic medications. I am explaining you briefly about premature ejaculation so that it will eliminate your fears. In premature ejaculation men come out very fast, Men gets discharged either before penetration or immediately after penetration, they hardly get some strokes. So the female partner remains unsatisfied. This may be due to so many factors like more heat in the body, excessive sex feelings, hyper sensitivity of the penis glands, thin semen, general nerves weakness, excessive masturbation, excessive Porn watching, and High cholesterol. High blood pressure, Diabetes, Obesity, thyroid, heart problem, alcohol, Tobacco use, Sleep disorders, tension, stress etc. This problem of premature ejaculation is very much treatable. I am suggesting you some ayurvedic medicines. Take shatavaradi churan half teaspoon in the morning and one in the night, Take tablet manmath Ras one in the morning and one in the night. Take tablet Pushp dhanva Ras one in the morning and one in the night, and take tablet Sidh makardhwaj Vati with gold, one in the morning and one in the night after food. All three preferably with hot milk or with water. Avoid junk food, oily, more spicy food, alcohol, tobacco, tension and anxiety. Start doing yoga. Pranayam, meditation, Vajroli mudra, Ashwini mudra, kegel exercise for at least 1 hour a day. Start taking hot milk twice a day also 2 to 3 dates in the morning and in the night with the milk. DO all this for 3 months and see the results. If you don't get satisfactory results then please go to your family doctor or to a good sexologist. You can also contact me on my private chat or directly in my clinic. We can even send you the medicines by courier. Website: www.kayakalpinternational.com
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Sir share me some more details about this first Chat or call me
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