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Everyone has conflicts in a marriage. Fights also happen. Please do consider couple's therapy, it really helps some people. You can do it online or in person.

Hi There may be some negative patterns between both of you which is leading to a discord. nothing like winning & loosing in a relationship, may be between wife & husband or between parents & children. It's always the relationship wins if you are enough mature in handling situation rather going with your own emotion. marriage is one relationship which stands tall than any other relationship. So please give her some time but never let her down in terms of love & affection, let her feel that she is your priority. Time has capacity to heal everything. All the best.

Hi I guess you both should go for relationship counseling and work on the issues. You can discuss with me I believe you should discuss your concerns in detail with a mental health professional to gain an insight about nature of problem and ways to overcome it through psychotheraputic techniques Consult with me or any psychologist for therapy and counseling Connect with me through practo Follow my Facebook page "juhi parashar -psychotherapist " for mental health issues All the best Seek help for early recovery

Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. I can understand your suitation. Any relationship issues especially among married couples can cause severe emotional disturbance to your day-to-day and career.  Such issues can be resolved with a neutral view from a professional like relationships or couple counselors. Be positive. Talk to a counselor first to ventilate your feelings and emotions. I am sure you will be able to see a different prepective about yourself and about your problems. Feel free reach me online or call for further evaluation and recommendation. Be positive. You both will be alright soon.

Seek couple counseling. It would help to understand each other better. I am an online counselor and can help you with same. Do connect with me if required. Happy to help !

Any relationship whether in marriage or friendship needs understanding and a desire to be together , It can cost you in terms of devotion and accepting the differences . Mathematics in a relationship is different 2 - 1= 0. When  life confronts you with challenges and differences , if they aren't resolved or understood then they get bundled  and  later  bursts. Tips Sit with your wife and communicate openly First , ask her to open her heart . try to know where he is feeling uncomfortable What she expects from you. When she will see respect for her desire and emotion she will listen to you more positively. Tell her you want your marriage to be more qualitative , so you both need to be more open and sharing about likes and Communicating skill is the key to a successful relationship. How to communicate.? 1 . Active listening Always listen with intention to understand the person , and not defending ourselves or prooving him wrong . Be open to listen your negative opinion from her side, listening does not mean that you are accepting it but it means that you are respecting a person's opinion. 2 .Assertive communication. Communicate with the intention of finding solutions that benefit both , don't communicate just to prove one wrong and other right 3 . Empathy  The key factor sit in her place and try to understand her feelings 4 . Acceptance Be brave to accept your behaviours , every person has different mentalities which he shows in behaviour , regardless of fear that it will not be understood , accept it. This will give a chance to the person to understand you and accept you the way you are , and will stop expecting things that is not your personality.( Mentality) 5. Stop controlling We often have some dominating , controlling part in our relationship which we label as we do for protecting our partner. Give space and freedom to choose what one wants to. 6 . Response Respond in a way to tell that person what you feel and how you want it to be and why . Show your X ray of feelings and emotions , without the fear of them being accepted or rejected. what you don't like about her How Terrible it makes you feelings What are the thoughts that you get because of this Open your heart totally , don't think what she will think , every person has his own likes and dislikes , there is nothing like this is wrong or right. This  will help the person to know that you are participating in the trial to resolve things and also he/she will know and understand you more deeply. Basically , Try to introspect yourself that what is it that your feelings and understanding you had initially are diminishing. Track this factor and try to resolve it at every stage. I hope this helps I give all kind of counseling services including marital counselling , online as well as face to face. Simoni shah Mental Health counselor. At Soothing Souls Walkeshwar & Nepean Sea road. Bombay   ·