My husband has stopped having sex with me. He claims that sex is stressing him out, but that he will masturbate as a stress reliever. Then he said that what he has, which he won't tell me, I can't fix because I'm not a doctor, but it's affected him since before we met/got married. (5 years ago). No
STD's that I'm aware of - if this is such a big deal, why hasn't he stopped before? I need ideas of what this is so we can deal with this in a healthy way with meds or otherwise.