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I m divorced wit 1 son. And now dating wit a boy wit whom ill marry in current years. But in past my current boyfriend has ditched me and came back again. But as i broked trust on him now he is wit me and he is good to me but i cant build trust on him. Soo most of time i keep on fighting as in wer r u.? Wit whom u r show me n all which he gets irritated and we fight a lot. I dont want to break up wit him. But what i should do Plz help
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U need therapy to get rid of negativity to stop suspicious behaviour...give space work on self development
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take premarital counseling for both of you. you can lead a successful life if you can take good steps thinkg about the future leaving the past completely.
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take premarrital counseling
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its good to have a CBT therapist
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You need Family Counselling and which help you to decide about ur future decisions.
Over counselling sessions you will surely understand what you really need.
Consult me or any Psychologist and Consult Online.
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Hi,
Trust is very important in any relationship especially when you are starting a new life and looking ahead to spend the life together, trust is integral part, it is the base of the relationship.
But I would like to know more why are you both and if you sincerely want to work on the relationship, then I would advise you both to have a relationship counselling.
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You can consult me on Practo for relationship counselling.
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Hi you need to take steps to heal your past before entering into a relationship. Doing so will help you to lead your life more matured & happy. You will be more confident to deal with ur life.
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Definitely i can help you with this concern.
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I am available for online consultation.Do let me know.
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Ms. Kajol Birawat
Counselling Psychologist
3 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hey! This sounds very difficult and frustrating. The key to a healthy relationship is often communication. It is important to talk to your boyfriend about the way you feel. This will help both of you gain more insight into each other's perspectives. You can also go for relationship counselling, in order to ensure that the both of you understand each other better. This will also help facilitate more effective communication, and equip you with strategies to enhance the quality of your relationship. You can also consult a therapist independently, in order to understand and sort your emotions more effectively. This will enable you to find effective and healthy ways to channelise your thoughts and emotions, hence helping you with your own mental health. This is an extremely important step, as it will allow you to view yourself and your health, independent of the relationship you are in.
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Please contact me through this app :)
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Dr. Mustafa Mun (PhD)
Clinical Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Mumbai
Don’t mix your past with the present
Past is History
Be consistent with the present
Or else you will regret in the future that you spoilt the relationship with both in this process
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Ms. Mala Vohra Khanna
Clinical Psychologist
9 yrs exp
New Delhi
I can totally understand your situation!!
Trust is very important and it takes pain in again and again building that trust again.
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start with premarital marriage counseling as this will help you to understand each other better.
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Accept your feeling !!
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Ms. Seema Jathar
Counselling Psychologist
5 yrs exp
Pune
Hi...I can understand your concern. You have trust issues with him because it has a past, i suggest you to take therapy session to heal your past, i also suggest you to go for couple counseling before marriage so that you both can lead to a trustworthy and happy life together ahead. You can contact me through practo app for the session.
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Ms. Neha Ravichandran
Counselling Psychologist
10 yrs exp
Bangalore
I understand your state of mind . Please consider taking couple counselling . As their are core issues which needs to be addressed and eased out.
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Couple counselling / individual Counselling
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Book Online or in clinic appointment : Ms. Neha Ravichandran
https://www.practo.com/bangalore/therapist/mrs-neha-ravichandran-psychologist
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
To build in the trust in him, first you need to trust your own decisions..If you still have doubt, it is better to take a call before entering into marriage..
For more clarity and understanding about yourself and about your future life, I suggest you to consult a therapist..
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Ms. Sakshi J Danwwar
Counselling Psychologist
10 yrs exp
Delhi
Work on your trust issues under guidance of a good psychologist.
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